How much sex talk is ok during early dating for a serious intended realtionship?

[Anonymous]

We talk all day about various topics and interests as well. I've not dated for many years, so I need dating help and coaching.

[Effably]

I think enough to at least get a mutual sense for if you match and vibe is not only acceptable but important.

It may be that my own tastes make it more important, I will readily admit to that. But I find it is almost always a benefit to at least have a basic idea of what your partner likes.

Also, flirting is fun. Flirting often gets at least mildly sexual. As long as sex is not a, or forbid the, main theme I think it is all well.

[RHK36]

Every relationship varies, just make sure both are comfortable. Communication is always key.

[DerekC321]

I would set boundaries. Make it clear you not comfortable with that.

[Anonymous]

Sex talk is a red flag.