Guys, right time to have sex or talk about sex for serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

Think beyond the dick for a sec
If a woman wants you to take her seriously for potenial long term relationship, should she really have sex early (after 3 dates is early to me) ? Or wait? Do you think men are often likely to take her seriously if she has sex before theyre committed?

It seems a lot of guys have sex long enough to get what they want then theyre onto the next. But they also claim they want us to go with the flow and get sexual when the vibe happens organically which can be too early for those of us who are on the freakier side xD

advice please!

[nofunkgiven]

I think the right amount is a few months. I know a lot of people would think that's absurd or impossible, but truth is, sex can always wait.. first just find out if u actually wanna be with this person, see how the relationship is going... if you're gonna break up two weeks after you date what's the purpose in having sex that early on in the relationship..

[Anonymous]

Its not about a 5 dates rule. I think it is more about how assertive you are as a woman. You are a keeper when you are not ruled by fake illusions and go for what make you feel good and stand out as a woman. If you feel like having sex it has to be for you, not to please the guy and if the next day you are busy with self care you turn off your phone

[SamBelfast1985]

Maybe after a month or so. I waited 4 months on my ex as she said she's a virgin. Took me a further 3 months of trying before it finally went in.

[unomilkis1]

See thats where you went wrong, you're expecting dudes to think beyond the dick ! haha