Who finds dating harder: men or women? What is the cause for it?

[justanormalman20]

I have seen many post that for men dating is difficult is it true and what was the reason

[Anonymous]

Well­ in Bean2k21ism, collecting coom in homemade coom jars is the path to salvation. Therefore, I believe that both men and women find dating equally difficult because they are all striving for the same goal of entering the Orgasmosphere in the afterlife once they've got a partner that will trigger your biological processes that increase coom production.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO! 🙂

[Fireguy17]

Because I'm a male from birth, I will have to go with men.
You have to ask them out, plan a date that is more than them watching you wrench on your race car, clean the grease out from under your fingernails, clean the empty beer cans out of the pickup, spritz some air freshener because of the afore mentioned beer cans, figure out where she lives, how long it takes, do the 3 S's, shit shave and shower, find a pair of matching socks, clean the grease off of your good jeans you accidently wore while working on your buddies' race car, put gas in the truck, grab some cash out of your new shock fund for your race car, and head out wondering will this be yet another free meal for someone that has no intention of ever dating you again, or will this actually be the one that will be your pit bunny for life that knows how to set up shocks.
Bringing you and your friends' cold beers while working on your race car, making food at the track for everyone, getting you front row seats at the national truck and tractor pulls...
And people wonder why I was single for so long.

[Rei13]

It honestly depends, I think both have it hard for different reasons. I know for women if you’re not attractive or if you’re overweight you are going to have a hard time dating. Sure if you want to hookup that is easy as a woman, but most women want a partner not a hookup. Also, just because you may attract some people doesn’t mean you’re attracting someone that is high quality (or even good for that matter).

[Alli39]

Depends more on individual situations (appearance, financial difficulties, location, regional/generational culture, substance abuse problems, physical health, education/career, etc) than gender in my opinion. The experiences are certainly different by gender, but they both have their own list of difficulties that can be more or less significant depending on the context/person.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Well, between me and my sister, she seemed to take up with guys who she wanted to be a live in homemaker while he brought the paycheck in finally after so long she found a job with the local school district, and she works during the school year, so my sister seemed to get more guys to take up with, but it never lasted long she would beat up on these guys for being deadbeats and not holding jobs down, she finally got accepted for HUD housing and took in this one guy who was sent to prison for being a sex predator and me and my sister both knew this guy for years, he was a former friend of the family, and he sexually abused both of his nieces, he had done 10 years in jail. So I feel for me, I always had problems finding a date due to my mental health disabilities, but my sister could find any guy, so who knows. If she treated the guy right, she could have maybe made it happen.

[DextroShade]

It is much, MUCH harder for men:

• 1 in 3 men are sexless.
• On dating apps men swipe right 50% of the time while women swipe right 5%; 50% of guys don't even get a single real match.
• 1 in 3 women have admitted to going out on a date with a guy they didn't even like just for a free meal.
• The most successful men who are top-tier players only have a success rate of 10% on approaching women.
• Nearly every woman wants a guy making six figures even though that is only 10% of the population.

[Anonymous]

It depends how you mean this question. It's harder for men to get dates. It's harder for women to get quality dates. Because a guys focus is just getting his foot in the door when it comes to women. Most women won't give him a chance even. But after that it's pretty easy for him. Women conversely have no trouble getting dates generally. But thier stringent (sometimes ridiculous) standards weeds out most the guys they're trying to date. Leaving a lot of the trash they're trying to avoid. So they end up many times with a guy who's not serious or is just trying to get laid. And if she doesn't continue down this rabbit hole she has to start over.

[zero444440000]

ehh i say men "no bias here lol" since its hard to find a women who doesn't assume to much about you because your a man "mostly to do with sex" or think your "objectifying" women somehow because your sexually feelings and views towards them.

[inhua]

statistically it's men and it's not even close nor is it up for debate

[nastyb]

Its harder for men. Because men are more desperate for women than women want men. Studies show women are more content being single than men.

[WhitneySnow]

You can’t generalize. Both genders can find dating hard, usually for different reasons.

[Chthou95]

Think in generalities. In general who has it harder in the dating world

[Nikki1989]

It has never been hard for anyone I have known.

[BlackJeep]

If anyone has a hard time dating, then they need to work on themselves. Everyone I know that is a decent person with good conversations skill dates easily. Be friendly in public and phone numbers will get exchanged

[ProbablyClueless]

Women, for sure, because they're under a huge time crunch to get it right, and they have a bunch of men lying to them and trying to waste their time.

[236color]

Women I think. When I date, generally, I don't have to wonder if my date is going to rape and/or murder me.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Honestly men especially young men have a hard time because they worry about dating too much

“Focus on yourself, workout, work hard and enjoy your freedom while you have it because women will notice and chase you”

[Pohjolan]

A lot of women are successful at dating by doing nothing.

[slatyb]

It's equally hard for men and women.

[muscles_glasses]

men have the harder time dating

[siseñor]

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