My ex blocked me for pursuing other girls so I messaged him from another way that I encourage his relationship with new girl. Did I do it right?

[Anonymous]

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Doing it right would have you being out of his life completely. NO MESSAGEZZZ.

[Asker]

Why not tell him that it doesn't effect me because he thinks that it is affecting me?

[Yucy_Gluttony]

He thinks that because you reach out. Any ex contacting me has been stuck in the past.

[Asker]

How can someone simply forget everything happened in the past like exes? The other person may be remembering the past right?

[Asker]

How could I forget what he done to me and how could I simply not tell him that I'm not affected by him when he's trying to effect my mental health?

[Yucy_Gluttony]

You asking me how to forget what he did to you is enough of an indicator that you didn't MOVE ON. Like I said, all exes who reached out haven't moved on. This case is no different. You can't forget, only move forward.
And you talking to him does NOT MAKE THAT EASIER NO NO

[Asker]

That was my last message to him and I don't want to associate with him after that. I moved on already but I simply wanted to tell him it doesn't affect me to see him with another girl and I'm happy with that. Why could you view it as wrong? I was asking how would he view me if I sent him that text and what would he think about me? I don't wanna be on bad terms with him and end it positively with him which was not possible since he blocked me so I told him through other way. Was there anything wrong with my thoughts?

[Yucy_Gluttony]

What's wrong with your thoughts is HIM BEING IN IT. Let it go. It's hurting you.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

That's my last message on this topic. You decide to listen to me or not. Just know that your choice is going to HURT FOR LONGER

[Asker]

What is my choice? He's not my choice anymore. I already said I moved on but for satisfaction told him that which he would remember as my last message and he won't receive any messages from me anymore and he's out of my life

[Asker]

I guess it's not wrong to simply have his cheating memories in my mind because how could you delete a human that you already know from your past? It's not possible for anyone. Even if we forget, they will be a past memory which we sometimes remember to understand that we got cheated on by them

[AlexEfron]

😂 I would disagree with other. I say you did right 🤣

[Asker]

Yeah

[jjj101010]

How did he stop u from messaging them

[Asker]

Blocked me when I was in love with him without any explanations. I found out later that for other girls he blocked me so I told him it won't effect me to see him with other girl and that I won't be associating with him anymore

[jjj101010]

He logged on to your account and blocked the other girls?

[Asker]

He blocked me not other girls

[jjj101010]

Ah I get it. So u have split up now

[Asker]

Yeah

[jjj101010]

Drop me a message if u wanna chat

[riverrat3]

Yess