Is it wrong I blocked my ex?

[saralolx2]

My ex and I use to date for 3 years—very toxic relationship as he was emotionally abusive, manipulated me, and scolded me (short tempered). I had my flaws of course as I was very emotional and would cry all the time. After being 6 months single he messaged me and admitted all his wrongs and we came back as friends. Along the way I told him numerous times that I wasn’t ready as the thought of him with other people would break my heart... he convinced me it would be okay and said he wouldn’t. One minute as I was and the next I wasn’t as I felt emotionally confused. I then found out he was talking to other girls behind my back and still had dating apps. Technically, he did nothing wrong but I felt betrayed. Along with this, I’ve been loaning him money and have been buying him meals as I always have. I told him how I felt and thought it wasn’t fair how I was acting like a girlfriend and he wasn’t lying and going behind my back. He told me “maybe I still talk to people because there’s always a problem with you” so I told him I was blocking him & to stay away. In a way I feel as though I’m abandoning him because he needs my help financially and because I’m never one to do this. Am I wrong?

[hailey2019]

This isn’t wrong at all!! So proud of you! xx He’s a grown man, and he can take care of himself. Don’t just sit back and let him take advantage of you financially or as a woman. You deserve better than that hun, so don’t run back to him. It seems like you’re a sensible kind hearted woman that many men would love. You’re lovable sis! 💕

[prettygurlrock]

Not at all. You said up there it was 3 years and the relationship was toxic. People don't change so don't fall for it. It's crazy because I was in the same problem as you. You did right to block him honestly. Don't feel wrong for doing what's best for you.

[Anonymous]

Only if you believe that guys and girls can be "just friends", since you blocking him, would only prove they can't

[saralolx2]

I believe ex’s could be friends once they have had enough time apart and don’t have feelings anymore. I told him so many times I did and I wouldn’t be okay and would feel betrayed but it was my fault he convinced me... I guess I needed more time

[Opinion Owner]

I truly don't think ex's can be "just friends"

[LonewolfMeme]

No u weren't in the wrong to do so

[outside_Toronto]

blocking your ex is 100% the right thing to do

[Izumiblu]

You aren’t wrong.