First, let me say that you sound like a wonderful girl, so it is his loss. However, bear in mind that many guys won't give a girl closure like that, or even talk to them after a break up, so count your blessings that at least you have some answers, even if they didn't lead to a more friendly outcome. Still, this is the more common outcome with many guys, as most do not want to be friends, or even speak to the girl again. Also, in this case, it sounds like the relationship must have been very frustrating for him in the end, and it left too many bad memories. Memories he would rather leave in the past and forgotten. But again, at least he was straight with you to a degree. I'm not saying this is how I would handle it, but in a way I can understand why he behaved that way. Either way, you can't get caught up on the whys and what-fors, wondering why you were blocked. That will lead nowhere, but to confusion. And in the end, who cares? It is done, over, and there is nothing you can do but acknowledge it. Hopefully you learned something from it, and can move forward into a new day filled with positivity and new possibilities, knowing better what you want and need in a relationship next time.
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It happened to me, with a girl though. I wrote to her apologising and wishing her the best only to get blocked. Fuck knows why, but in MY mind i was already willing to let her go. It did kill me, knowing she blocked me. But I had weight on my shoulders I had to let go. Been 3 years now and still no word. I never even bothered to make a fake account and check her out because MY mindset was already established. Move on
He blocked you because he has decided that he wants you to be his past so in order to commit to that choice, he must follow suit by not making you his present or future. I can't say for sure why he kept his other exes as friends as opposed to you without knowing more about the dynamic of the relationships. It may be because his other exes have legitimate mutual friendships with him or they are in his same friendship circles. Or it could be because for whatever reason, he plans on getting back together with them in the future or even just fucking them/pursuing a depthless, meaningless f*ck buddy relationship with them.
I wouldn't take it personally.
Often times, an ex will block another ex for the simple fact that they genuinely want to leave that person in their past. They do not want that person to be apart of their future in any shape, way, or form. Great for your spirit that you seek to keep peace, but many exes will seek to keep nothing from you. :/ I know that sounds harsh, but just trying to give you some perspective.
he just doesn't want to talk to you anymore for whatever reason. let him move on and let yourself move on. you deserve to be happy, not trying to explain y ourself to ur ex.
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To be honest men like that still have some feelings for you. But he letting you go due to Polly talking to someone else that has his interest now and he doesn't want you to see it until he knows he know his chances are done with her. No hard feelings that's cool you didn't do nothing buy I wouldn't worry about him. There's always a reason god blocked your relations with him because he has someone better for you. Good luck god bless
He wanted to be left alone, and you kept messaging him so he blocked you. I don't really see what you're confused about, if someone who you told to stop messaging you kept on doing so, no matter how nice they think they are, they're not respecting and blatantly ignoring your request to stop talking to them so you'd likely block them if you wanted nothing to do with them.
Consider that relationship re-kindling opportunity absolutely closed.
It is time to emotionally recover and go guy hunting! :-DDoes it matter... " if some one has the nerve to show you their ass to kiss, please do your self a favor and move on you'll manage somehow " you don't need him ;) but i hope you feel better soon
some people are just not compatible.
the guy moved on... get over it...
same happened to me. how did it go with the guy?
dunno. you?
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