Why are looks more important than the person personality?

[Anonymous]

I don't believe it should be more important whereas personality should be more important in my view.

[_Maya_]

Who says looks are more important? Personality is way more important to most people. Good looking people can be complete assholes. I won't date an asshole whereas a guy or girl with solid personality is a very attractive trait. Someone that is funny and I get along with for example has a much better shot than the good looking dick that is stuck up or boring. That is just common sense. I don't know where you get that looks are more important.

[Asker]

Because I've always been told that my looks and physics from people who know me have stated are probably why I'm alone. Because my personality is the strongest aspect to me. Storytelling , humour, how I respect etc..

[_Maya_]

Well that is a shitty thing for people to say of you. Personality counts more than looks. Not saying I am going to date someone I am unattracted to but certainly not going to date a good looking guy or girl with a bad personality. That is guaranteed.

[Asker]

I'm flawed in jawline, could have better type of hairstyle and could be built even better I'm not underweight or overweight I am at present 186ibs.

[Asker]

I've always lost out to drug dealers, guys that are worse off physically then me but might be better looking in fact and match/ similar personality. & One jock.

[_Maya_]

Well two of those things you can improve. Everyone including myself could always be in better shape. Hairstyle is easy to change. Go to a salon or whatever and make an appointment with a GIRL stylist. Ask her what would look good. They are good at that sort of thing.

[Asker]

Well I need help with finding a Dietitian as putting on weight is why I don't have an amazing physics. I have triangular body type if you know what that looks like regarding hairstyle I reach out to guy who understands what type hairstyle works best base off of the appearance he recommend this

https://photos.app.goo.gl/GWaqj2SZrSEo4YSj6
This is someone else but the hairstyle apparently would work on me.

[_Maya_]

Yeah I like that hairstyle.

[Asker]

That I can easily fix putting weight on something I need help with.

[_Maya_]

Dietician is a good way to go about it. If you are working out currently do a high protein diet. Building muscle mass will add weight and lose fat.

[Asker]

Do you know any websites to find one?

[_Maya_]

For a dietician prob ask your doctor for referral. Here is something I found that gives the basics of what you want to do.

www.mayoclinic.org/.../art-20390073

[NatalieKeller95]

are you on the spectrum?

[Asker]

Who me?

[_Maya_]

@NatalieKeller95 who thr fuck you talking to. Best point that out before you insult either one of us. Just so we cam give a measured response. If you even know what that means.

[Asker]

@_Maya_ I think she's referring to me. Yes I'm on the autism spectrum my condition is mild (Asperger) I have been diagnosed since 15. I had to teach myself the correct body language, eye contact and how to use empathy as they're aspects that someone with my condition can't do naturally.

[Anonymous]

Because physical attraction is important to some people and that’s okay. I wouldn’t date someone that i’m not physically attracted to. Personality is also very important but for me I gotta be attracted to both.

[inhua]

because sex is a key component of relationships

and nobody wants to fuck someone only to end up with ugly kids

and looks are only subjective when the candidates are within the same attractiveness range i. e. Henry Cavill vs Chris Hemsworth or Megan Fox vs Margot Robbie

candidates like Peter Dinklage and Amy Schumacher are objectively less attractive than the other names mentioned

[Asker]

I don't think a attractive person and ugly individual makes ugly kids you both have to be somewhat for that to ever metalize.

[inhua]

while true that the attractiveness of the parents has nothing to do with the attractiveness of their offspring, our primitive brain tells us otherwise

of course 2 ugly parents can produce attractive offspring and 2 attractive parents can produce ugly offspring but our primitive brains don't think that far beyond

[JackCarter]

No its not, it's like a nicely packed gift with nothing inside LOL

[Anonymous]

Only at first, when you meet someone. But over time, a persons personality means just as much, if not more than looks.

[Asker]

That's what my mates/bro say but I personally haven't met a woman who thinks that way. Hence I am alone.

[Opinion Owner]

Well never give up.

[Asker]

It is hard most of the women in my area regardless of age seem to what aesthetic men.

[Paris13]

Um, Who Says? xx

[Asker]

Every girl I met basically 😅 I haven't met one who thinks personality is more important.

[Paris13]

They are Shallow, dear. xx

[Paris13]

I have Had Them ALLL and ALWays Elvis Looking. xxoo

[Asker]

https://photos.app.goo.gl/NTcHPR9M92gMMCrb6
This hairstyle is what I want to get at the end of this month needs it to grow a little more at the front xx

[Paris13]

I like it. xxoo