Whenever I talk about the future and our relationship - she changes the topic, am I being used?

[Anonymous]

She is 44 and I am 34 and we dating since past 11 months - I want long term and want commitment. she always changes the topic and ignores my views which is building lot of frustration and i feel like exploding and telling her to fuck off if she doesn't see me in that way rather than using me,

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t sound like she’s the one for you. If she doesn’t listen to you or value your desires, she’s not worth your time.

[DarkWinterNights]

Sounds like the age gap bothers her and instead of addressing it she’s trying to ignore it.

[Anonymous]

Well, you need to ask her, but it sounds like she is not committed to anything long term.

[Asker]

I ask her but she doesn't allow me to speak about it and changes the fkng topic all the time

[Opinion Owner]

That's not good.

[LazerBean]

Probably.