Am I being used or she is just unsure?

[Xenon21]

Long story short, we met and hit it off. It always clicked with us. She had a boyfriend and he forced her to stop speaking to me. When they broke up, we got back in touch and we met up for my birthday. She said we should be friends just because of religious differences. Made it clear if not for that, we'd be together. Anyway, we spent a lot of that night kissing and being close. Next time I see her, we share the same bed in a hotel room but don't do anything. I sensed hesitancy from her so left it. Few months goes on and she develops psychosis so I just take a few steps back as I'd be unable to help during this phase and she just was not herself. She has since recovered and gets back in touch with me to apologise for sending weird messages and behaving strangely. Since then, she touches base once a month just to see how everything is. I feel like we do have a strange sort of bond and I'd have long expected her to forget about me but she keeps reappearing.

Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

She's emotionally unstable. You like her now, but you won't when you have to deal with her on a regular basis. I think you're stuck on this girl because you don't have many options, which is usually the case when men are willing to give women with clear mental issues a chance. No disrespect, just calling it how I see it. My advice is forget about this girl. There are women out there that are emotionally stable, that won't drive you nuts, as this girl inevitably eventually will. Date women for who they are right now, rather than their potential, and trust women's actions, not their words. This woman is showing you that she is not in the space to be healthy for you, and its important that you see it for what it is before you get further emotionally invested. Trust your gut man, she's not the one.