The man I was dating said that all men inherently want multiple women and cheating should be normalized is this true?

[ToxicoLuluz]

[Fireguy17]

Not true.
Many/most men are monogamous.
And then there are those out there that aren't.
I'm thinking he was trying to rationalize his behavior so he tried to make it seem like everyone does it so it is ok.
If you are not in a serious/committed relationship then sure go out and date as many as you can afford.
If you are in a committed relationship then no, one is enough.

[DextroShade]

To an extent it is, most men would prefer to be like King Solomon and have a massive harem but in reality dealing with these hoes is a hassle and they usually aren't worth it. I prefer to have a wife who I actually care about.

[Anonymous]

i think men would enjoy having a girl and then girls on the side just for recreation if it were socially acceptable and they could afford to do it, in fact, the ones who can afford it usually do it a lot

[provokeesmokee]

No, but he really tipped his own cards there.

You really wanna date someone who believes that? I wouldn't. He sounds like he's trying to lay the groundwork to cheat on you.

[ToxicoLuluz]

He did cheat on me lmao so you are right

[Keyboardkat]

Guys' brains are programmed to find the sights and sounds of women exciting, provocative and sexy! So men live closer to the brink of arousal. That said, we are not mindless animals! We are not CONTROLLED by our gonads! Of course one can be attracted to others besides our significant other! It's true of women as well. But as one matures, the realization sets in that in life, one must make certain choices. One CANNOT have everything, and one CANNOT have everyone, either.
Love, you know, is a choice. It's a choice that says, "I choose you today, and I will continue to choose you in the future when neither of us is so attractive anymore." This is called commitment. Otherwise, if it's just based on "feeleings," feelings can change from day to day and change back again! And no one could ever trust your words when you say "I love you" to someone.

[josefff]

Are you sure he is not a 12 yo edgy kid who follow and advocates some randomass pill ideology?

[noohair]

Bullsh! t. There is part of the caveman brain that drives that behavior, but with humanity pushing 8 Billion, it is not necessary for the survival of Homo Sapeans.

[ProbablyClueless]

That's not true in my way of seeing things, but I guess we all have our opinions.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Some guys (and girls) are like that, most are not.

[LazerBean]

It's only true for the most promiscuous of men.

[Grovermint]

No, he's a dumbass.

[Anonymous]

It probably is true of the men you date.

[slatyb]

No, it's not.

[Anonymous]

No, I don't even want one.

[Anonymous]

All sexy girls
And u are super sexy tbh

[jahaims]

No lol

[riverrat3]

Some do