How true is the saying “All men cheat”?

[Anonymous]

do all men cheat one way or another?

[ohsheeT]

If we're going to be honest everybody cheats in one way or another and one moment in time or another the level of cheating depends on the person but I think everybody cheats that's why we are all sinners for humans the thing is it's easy to be stupid it's easy to be bad it's hard to be good we have to work at it and become the best that we can become that's why there are good people in this world and bad people some people are just lazier than others some people just don't care but every single one of us has cheated in one way or another whether we know it or not

[MisterWack]

I would never cheat on my girlfriend (in a sex / emotional way)

In video games, I might look up the occasional walkthrough when I get stuck, put in a cool cheat code a friend showed me, or do some wild stuff in the game though never cheating on a relationship (also not cheating in multiplayer games where it ruins other people’s gaming experience, all singleplayer)

[sage2021]

I prefer not to say "All" anymore when asking questions such as this one.
But I will say that cheating, either emotional cheating or physically cheating seems to be a lot more prevalent now more than ever.

I have to blame social media for the increase in cheating.

A friend of mine said "Everyone cheats" which is not true but social media finds it's acceptable.

[DishLady]

No one knows ALL MEN to know what ALL MEN do. However I know a few men who don’t cheat, so we can safely debunk the fake “ALL men” claim.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of truth on this spicy topic, let's get real about the saying "All men cheat." It's like saying all desserts are sweet—sure, many are, but have you ever bitten into a piece of dark chocolate that promised sweetness and instead delivered an unexpected depth? Not all men cheat, just like not every piece of chocolate will make you pucker with sweetness. Human behavior, especially in relationships, is as varied as the stars in the sky. Cheating, or the decision not to, stems from personal values, individual circumstances, and the dynamics within a relationship. Calling it a universal truth unfairly boxes men into a stereotype that overlooks the genuine capacity for loyalty, love, and respect many bring to the table. So, let’s retire the broad brush and appreciate the nuances in human relationships. 🌌💖

[Finchie40]

The same truth that all women cheat , it’s not true

[JackThompson2]

depends on what you define as cheating tbh.

if you believe watching pornography is cheating: then yes.
if you believe looking/checking out other girls is cheating: then yes.

i would personally say its cheating if its physical, and with physical i mean flirting, texting behind your back, meeting the person behind your back and worst case scenario, physical contact like kissing/romantically hugging and sex.

but almost all men will masturbate in a relationship, and pornography is there only to make it easier and has nothing to do with their SO, in my opinion.

and almost all men will look at other girls they find attractive when walking around. its instinct, humans are "programmed" to look at something/someone if its attractive. but its doesn't necessary mean that he wants other girls. but ofcourse its not something one man should do while walking around with his girlfriend. and at least not obviously and excessive.

[adventurous-1]

about as true as "All women cheat". it's been going on as long as people have been around and it seems more prevenient today that years ago thanks to the internet and society's views on cheating. Not everyone cheats regardless of gender. But many do and now we are seeing an uptick in lifestyles promoting cuckolding, hot wife's, and just plain promiscuity. There's far less condemnation for loose morals then in the past, and open lifestyles are becoming more common and accepted.

[Anonymous]

It’s like saying all women are whores. NO….. every human being is different and make their OWN choices.

It’s giving people a excuse to say it’s just how they are. Sure a lot of people cheat. A lot of people have bad morals… But that’s the choices they made

[Unit1]

If you count watching porn as cheating, then yes, all men cheat.

If you see or date only the top 10% of men, then yes, all men, who you see do cheat.

[MrOracle]

"If you see or date only the top 10% of men, then yes, all men, who you see do cheat."

This is what SO many girls can't understand. If you only date the guys who have unlimited options with women, you can't expect those men to remain loyal - because they don't have to!

[Unit1]

@MrOracle good to see you again.
I have a sort of a theory, that some of these girls, that see and date only the top 10% of men have an overinflated sense of worth, given that they collected a sizeable number of likes and compliments and overindulge on tik tok and YouTube videos how they are perfect Angels deserving only the best and need not to change.

[avery58]

@MrOracle you can expect any partner to be loyal no matter how successful they happen to be, because it's just the decent thing to. If you don't think he's trustworthy then don't date him.

Most women have lots of options as well and just because we do doesn't mean most of us accept their advances. Anyone who wants respect should give it back.

[MrOracle]

You can talk all you want about what SHOULD happen, but that won't change what DOES happen.

The vast majority of the top 10% men have been taking advantage of women's desire for them by being players, and aren't about to give that up to commit to one woman. Why should they, when they know 20 other women who have all the same qualities but don't expect them to be monogamous?

Those men have the most leverage of anyone in the dating game, and they know it, and the women know it too. I've personally talked to dozens of women who were chasing such a man, and many of them admitted that it was unrealistic to expect that man to be faithful, but nearly all of them still went after him anyway, because they always chose their feelings over logic and reason. Only a small few came to their senses and let the guy go. The other ones invariably got used and dumped.

It's so common as to be the norm for those men and the women who pursue them.

[avery58]

@MrOracle it's those women's fault for choosing guys they knew were assholes anyway. But not all successful and good looking men are cheaters or assholes, and holding a partner to standards (if you choose the right partner you actually trust enough for a relationship) should always be the norm.
For example Brazilian soccer player Kaka's ex wife admitted he never cheated on her or treated her badly but she got bored of the relationship because "he was too perfect" and divorced him. She like many of the women you're talking about choose assholes on purpose, so I'm not referring to them.

[MrOracle]

Not all, but most. It's not like it makes men look good to admit it, but it's the truth, and that directly affects any woman who chooses such men. Yes, a few exceptions definitely exist, but THOSE guys are SO sought after that they can demand the sun and moon and get it.

You can always point to a rare exception, but very few people are the exception or get the exception - the RULE is what applies to nearly everyone. Women who choose or chase those men are going to get used more than 99 times out of a hundred. That's the number that matters.

[Account]

Out of the around four billion of men, it is not possible that all men cheat even if we use pure mathematics, it just makes no sense.

[RebelinSteel]

It’s bollox is what it is.

did you ask your mum if your dad cheated?

Do some guy yes, do some girls yes

[Lady_Heart]

I don't think all cheat but 95% do. Nowdays even women are no exception. Finding loyal people is hardest path u will ever encounter

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's a total fabrication because for that to be true, I would have had to have cheated and you won't find anyone more anti-cheating than me!

[Anonymous]

Not true. A large % of men have never been w a girl or will ever be w a girl because they’re not cute enough, don’t make enough money or don’t have a big donkey dick. So that statement isn’t true. Far from it.

[Dongie]

No, it's not true. If it were you wouldn't have to ask. And all women would cheat and it would be a big expected thing. It's the decent folks that keep things in line and they also pay for the wrongs along with others it seems.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. I’ve never cheated. Most sayings like this are not true.

[Tommy300]

I have never cheated personally nor have any of my friends. The boys and me can't even get women let alone cheat. Lock them up in chastity if your that worried I guess.

[HawkPerception]

It's the farthest thing from true. There are lots of good men and lots of good women.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Are all women whores?

People say that too... Generalizations are always generalizations and ones like this are insanely broad, anecdotal, and emotional.

[FunkyMonkee]

Every bit as true as, "All women cheat".

[DrPepper12]

False
WTF? Were the only ones who are infidelity? GTFOH with that 💩

[dragoblack]

No, those who chase sex, are more likely to cheat... especially if you both jump into a relationship from a 1-night-stand.

[Anonymous]

It's ridiculous. It's no surprise this is a constant with some women though because some women will never choose a quality man.

[Xoirwinkan]

It's like saying all women are whores, not true.

[Alli112]

No. Not all men cheat.

[elizamichale1]

Its as true as anybody saying all of us cheat...

[SoJust]

There is no truth to it

[strateguy632]

as true as the saying “All women cheat”.

[MrGSpotHer]

Definitely not but I can only speak for myself

[noohair]

Stereotyping is not necessarily true.

[sirderpsalot123]

Not true

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t think most people cheat in general

[avery58]

@WhiteBoyChill you'd be surprised. I've seen lots of people cheating and most of them cheated with their coworkers. Even people I didn't expect it from. There was one guy I knew was a player but he cheated on his girlfriend right after she had his baby, this world is pretty disgusting.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@avery58 You’re probably right. The more I come to understand the world, the more disturbed I’ll probably be.

I live mostly as a hermit

[Luckycharms12]

No that's bullshit

[exitseven]

NOt true

[LiamJHayden]

It is false.

[SotiCoto]

False.

[Staximus]

Not all men

[Pohjolan]

Its false.

[Twalli]

Not at all.

[Sabretooth]

no...