Is it okay to not want to date a woman because she’s bi?

[Anonymous]

Hear me out first. It’s because I’ve always had horrible experiences with women who were bi. They’re cheaters, manipulators, and always care about money. I no longer want anything to do with that. F them.

[provokeesmokee]

No.

You're not dating out of preference. You're allowing your homophobia (biphobia counts) to make your judgements.

You're not dating on preference. You're judging and avoiding due to hatred and misinformation.

Sure, there's cheating bisexuals. Just like there's cheaters, liars, and manipulators among straights. And gays. Probably the only folks immune are aro/aces, and even then probably not. Just much less likely.

The only person who cheated on me was a straight man.

But you'd be offended if I said all straight men are cheaters.

Same shit. Don't be homophobic.

Do bisexual women a favour, immediately tell every woman your opinions on bisexuals.

You'll drive all bisexuals and most women away, and you'll only be left with the folks desperate enough to date you.

Captive audience.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't know, I've only known 5 or 6 non straight people but I've definitely picked up on the pattern of getting cheated on, becoming a different orientation, getting treated even more like shit and then the person just becomes very negative about monogamy in general.

If it's true, it doesn't make what you're doing any more right or wrong. Same for that guy

[Miah05]

I swear y'all be a mess.

Is it okay to not date someone i don't want to date?🤣 gosh. This a tough one to figure out🤣

[madhatters4]

it's your choice. you can choose to date whomever you want.

but i think your prejudice towards bisexual women is something to re-evaluate. date whom you want but allowing oneself to fall into prejudices of millions if not billions of people based on your experience with a microscopic percentage of them is no way to go through life

[Avicenna]

You can want to avoid dating a woman for any number of reasons

[Grovermint]

Yeah, everyone has preferences. Just like there are women that are bi that wouldn't date a man that was with another man. Everyone is entitled to their particular interest, whether it be based on orientation, skin color, height, etc. To have a preference isn't going against that person, it's having your own interest.

[Grovermint]

Now this part :They’re cheaters, manipulators, and always care about money, can be anyone regardless of orientation. To simply paint all those people with the same brush is ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. I dated a bi girl once (didn't know she was bi until after she cheated) and she cheated on me with another women. Her defence was that it wasn't with a guy so it wasn't technically cheating. I find that mindset common among bi people. I will never knowingly date a bi woman again because I ony want to date women whose sexual needs I as a man can satisfy 100%.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It doesn't really matter if how you feel is right or wrong here does it?

[Anonymous]

Yes. Most women are bi though. I would never tell a guy about my previous lesbian relationships

[jimmy2]

Well try it you might like it or you will know the truth not too

[Ms_Facesitter]

Your life, your preferences.

[dudeinohio]

I agree with you mostly. They will cheat on you.