Would you date someone who's openly bi?

[clki371]

It's amazing that a lot of the people here really don't know what bisexuality is. Being bisexual does not make someone more likely to cheat on you! It simply means that they can date a boy or a girl. Plain and simple. And if they are dating you, then they have chosen to date you for a reason - you shouldn't feel as though you are not enough to satisfy your partner just because you are 1 gender and they are attracted to both. That's like saying you couldn't date someone who likes all races because you're white and they're therefore more likely to cheat on you with a black guy!

ANYWAY:
As a bisexual girl dating a bisexual guy, I love it! I am actually much more likely to be attracted to a guy who's bi, simply because I can feel more comfortable in my own identity (if I wanna dress masculine sometimes, or if he wants to feel femme sometimes, we can totally do that!) It's also totally refreshing to date a guy who isn't tied down by the crippling fear that doing certain things is considered "gay."
(spoiler alert, liking guys is gay. moisturizing your skin, painting your nails, and wiping after you use the bathroom is not.)
But honestly, this shouldn't just be a "bisexual people" thing; I think all dudes should be comfortable enough in their masculinity that they can still feel attracted to their partner regardless of how feminine or masculine they choose to look and act.

[Anonymous]

No. No disrespect, but I prefer my men straight!!!

I tried to date a bi guy before, one of the first things he asked me was could we add another guy to the relationship 🤦🏻‍♀️

I'm not saying all bisexuals are that way, but I'd be afraid he'd leave me, or cheat on with a guy.

[TCredo]

I am hetero-romantic bisexual (meaning I can only see myself in a romantic relationship with a cis woman or a transgender woman but not a guy - but I do enjoy guy-on-guy sex stuff). I would have no problem dating a bi cis woman or bi transgender woman.

Also - just to share - here's a pretty cool article on what women think of bi guys :)
https://medium.com/mel-magazine/the-women-who-go-wild-for-bisexual-guys-c55158954da1

[JackSmy]

I have, and she had a girlfriend. She liked things with me that her girlfriend couldn't do, but she also liked her girlfriend because I couldn't do things she did for her.
I wasn't jealous, at all, and it made sense, and it worked for ore than a year.
She loved, just being loved by two that never 'fought' about loving her! (childhood and divorce issues!)

[SydneySentinel]

No, probably not.

[SirRexington]

I don't know, it's weird to me. I don't like the idea of someone in dating having a higher likelihood of cheating on me. And don't tell me that's not true because yes it fucking is. They've even done surveys that show bisexuals are more sexually active and more likely to be poly.

I don't want that mindset in my life. I want a woman. A woman who likes men, specifically me. But if I was to date a woman who found women equally as sexually attractive I don't think I'd be okay with that. Call me a homophobe if it feels good to you. I truthfully don't give a damn.

[joethemoe912]

My girlfriend is bi and monogamous she likes sex with guys more than girls anyway but we have talked extensively about long term commitment and she assured me she would not cheat on me. I told her how my ex (straight) cheated on me and we connected a lot more after.

[Lynx122]

Idc. I don't understand people who seem to think people who are bi have more options and are less loyal. As if a straight woman couldn't cheat on you if she wanted to. to me it doesn't make any difference at all. So it only depends if I like this girl or not. Plus MFF threesome might be fun :)

[Somethingwittty]

Why would I care if my girlfriend went and slept with another woman? As long as it wasn't with a guy i wouldn't care lol. As long as emotions dont get to high and i can join in from time to time I dont care.

[CurLyF]

I have nothing against it, it just that for me picturing two guys together is like the biggest turn off. So I'd probably loose sexual interest if the guy was bi

[MikeAndMolly]

As a person who isn't homophobic, yes, I'd date a bisexual woman.

My fiancee is pansexual.

And for reference, people talking about concerns about fidelity or "worrying about the whole population instead of just half" that's homophobic and ignorant.

You're talking about monogomy vs polyamory or infidelity, which is unrelated to sexual orientation.

[MrHopper]

Most of my exs have been Bi.. i dont know they are bi usually until a bit into the relationship, but i been told its because am not like most men so i come across as softer

[MissKittyz]

Yes. Why wouldn't I? I'm bi myself so don't see a problem with another person who's bi.

[Mikeymike81]

Being bi doesn't mean they're going to cheat on you.
My partner is pansexual but she loves me and I trust her.

[Romolo]

Yes, I would date someone who is openly bi. No reason not to, in my opinion.

[xkildy]

No thank you I prefer to fight with only one side of this world not both

[TremorJay]

I guess I'd give it a try? I don't think I'd like it, but who knows

[dobby-is-a-free-elf]

Yes I’m bi and if I was dating someone who also was I wouldn’t care

[Y3llow]

Of course. I am openly bi so I may be a bit biased 😂

[MannySimms]

The possibilities are wonderful! And no need to cheat.

[Kritssh]

Of course. There is nothing wrong with any sexual orientation and that doesn't matter.

[admles]

As long as she was faithful, it wouldn't bother me. She'd have to agree that her having sex with a woman would still be cheating.

[franklyfit]

Yes as long as it is being dealt in my absence cause I'm straight. But i need to know bout it :) won't bother me much

[jasco]

i don't care if someone is bi lots of people ik are so it doesn't bother me