Would you date someone who's openly bi?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[clki371]

It's amazing that a lot of the people here really don't know what bisexuality is. Being bisexual does not make someone more likely to cheat on you! It simply means that they can date a boy or a girl. Plain and simple. And if they are dating you, then they have chosen to date you for a reason - you shouldn't feel as though you are not enough to satisfy your partner just because you are 1 gender and they are attracted to both. That's like saying you couldn't date someone who likes all races because you're white and they're therefore more likely to cheat on you with a black guy!

ANYWAY:
As a bisexual girl dating a bisexual guy, I love it! I am actually much more likely to be attracted to a guy who's bi, simply because I can feel more comfortable in my own identity (if I wanna dress masculine sometimes, or if he wants to feel femme sometimes, we can totally do that!) It's also totally refreshing to date a guy who isn't tied down by the crippling fear that doing certain things is considered "gay."
(spoiler alert, liking guys is gay. moisturizing your skin, painting your nails, and wiping after you use the bathroom is not.)
But honestly, this shouldn't just be a "bisexual people" thing; I think all dudes should be comfortable enough in their masculinity that they can still feel attracted to their partner regardless of how feminine or masculine they choose to look and act.

[MikeAndMolly]

YAAAAAS.
You GET them ignorant homophobes

I wanna send you like a digital hot coco or something.

YOU
GET
THEM

[R4vedave]

Fucking preach!

[Anonymous]

No. No disrespect, but I prefer my men straight!!!

I tried to date a bi guy before, one of the first things he asked me was could we add another guy to the relationship 🤦🏻‍♀️

I'm not saying all bisexuals are that way, but I'd be afraid he'd leave me, or cheat on with a guy.

[TCredo]

I am hetero-romantic bisexual (meaning I can only see myself in a romantic relationship with a cis woman or a transgender woman but not a guy - but I do enjoy guy-on-guy sex stuff). I would have no problem dating a bi cis woman or bi transgender woman.

Also - just to share - here's a pretty cool article on what women think of bi guys :)
https://medium.com/mel-magazine/the-women-who-go-wild-for-bisexual-guys-c55158954da1

[TCredo]

Thanks for the MHO :)

[JackSmy]

I have, and she had a girlfriend. She liked things with me that her girlfriend couldn't do, but she also liked her girlfriend because I couldn't do things she did for her.
I wasn't jealous, at all, and it made sense, and it worked for ore than a year.
She loved, just being loved by two that never 'fought' about loving her! (childhood and divorce issues!)

[SirRexington]

I don't know, it's weird to me. I don't like the idea of someone in dating having a higher likelihood of cheating on me. And don't tell me that's not true because yes it fucking is. They've even done surveys that show bisexuals are more sexually active and more likely to be poly.

I don't want that mindset in my life. I want a woman. A woman who likes men, specifically me. But if I was to date a woman who found women equally as sexually attractive I don't think I'd be okay with that. Call me a homophobe if it feels good to you. I truthfully don't give a damn.

[CharlieBadger]

I was in a 13 year relationship and never cheated. Care to offer some citations for the studies that show we Bisexuals are more prone to cheating?

[SirRexington]

@CharlieBadger I never said prone to cheating. Where did I once say that? And just because you use yourself for anecdotal evidence means nothing. I can give my anecdotal evidence and experience with it to. Does that make it resoundingly true?

[CharlieBadger]

" I don't like the idea of someone in dating having a higher likelihood of cheating on me. "

That is what you said.

prone

1. likely to or liable to suffer from, do, or experience something, typically something regrettable or unwelcome.

You used the words higher and likelihood. I used the words more and prone. Same meanings.

And as for anecdotal, you claimed there were studies without providing an actual citation.

My personal, yet anecdotal account is every bit as valid as your opinion that bisexuals can't or won't be faithful in a relationship.

[SirRexington]

@CharlieBadger I'm still not comfortable with it. That's my right. Why can't you people get over it? And the reason I didn't cite anything is because there is conflicting information and it's hard to find the studies because the media always puts out raving campaigns in support of them rather than being truthful. Now again, that doesn't mean a bisexual person will cheat, but they are more "prone" as they have more to choose from and are more open to open relationships than straight people.

Again, nothing against bisexuals. But I don't want to date someone who is just as likely to cheat on me with a woman than a man. Straight women cheat enough as it is. I don't want the option of another gender added to the mix.

[CharlieBadger]

And you don't have to be comfortable with it. That's up to you and no one can force you into being comfortable with it.

But more to chose from does not equate to more likely to cheat. You may be accurate on being more open to poly/open relationships. But that is probably more common among males than females because it is more common in gay couples than in straight or lesbian couples.

[SirRexington]

@CharlieBadger but in lesbian couples there is more abuse. Which is interesting. Because I wouldn't have expected that.

[Lynx122]

Idc. I don't understand people who seem to think people who are bi have more options and are less loyal. As if a straight woman couldn't cheat on you if she wanted to. to me it doesn't make any difference at all. So it only depends if I like this girl or not. Plus MFF threesome might be fun :)

[MikeAndMolly]

As a person who isn't homophobic, yes, I'd date a bisexual woman.

My fiancee is pansexual.

And for reference, people talking about concerns about fidelity or "worrying about the whole population instead of just half" that's homophobic and ignorant.

You're talking about monogomy vs polyamory or infidelity, which is unrelated to sexual orientation.

[MissKittyz]

Yes. Why wouldn't I? I'm bi myself so don't see a problem with another person who's bi.

[leftygriffy]

I gave the thumbs up for you being bi hahaha thats awesome

[nick1988]

What's up

[joethemoe912]

My girlfriend is bi and monogamous she likes sex with guys more than girls anyway but we have talked extensively about long term commitment and she assured me she would not cheat on me. I told her how my ex (straight) cheated on me and we connected a lot more after.

[dobby-is-a-free-elf]

Yes I’m bi and if I was dating someone who also was I wouldn’t care

[dobby-is-a-free-elf]

It wouldn’t bother me is what I meant

[nick1988]

Hi love bi girls more pussy to hit

[Y3llow]

Of course. I am openly bi so I may be a bit biased 😂

[nick1988]

Yes that is true

[Somethingwittty]

Why would I care if my girlfriend went and slept with another woman? As long as it wasn't with a guy i wouldn't care lol. As long as emotions dont get to high and i can join in from time to time I dont care.

[MissDawn7961]

Somethingwitty - she can have sex with both , tell any one she wants and you will never know

[Somethingwittty]

If i had plans to be serious with her I personally wouldn't want her to. Just my preference.

[CurLyF]

I have nothing against it, it just that for me picturing two guys together is like the biggest turn off. So I'd probably loose sexual interest if the guy was bi

[MrHopper]

Most of my exs have been Bi.. i dont know they are bi usually until a bit into the relationship, but i been told its because am not like most men so i come across as softer

[CreativeMumble]

Yes, why wouldn't I?
As long as he's monogamous.

I'm bi-curious myself.

[PondyPand]

nope, i'm not interested in anything but straight men BORN that way

[Twat_Twig]

I don't care. 🤷 As long as his dick is my dick while we're dating. And we can admire hot guys together. 😂

[pantyhosebi]

You ever sucked cock with a guy?

[Mikeymike81]

Being bi doesn't mean they're going to cheat on you.
My partner is pansexual but she loves me and I trust her.

[Blue9577]

Yeah. Bisexuality doesn't mean that your partner is any more likely to leave you for the other gender than a heterosexual partner would leave you for the same gender.

[MissDawn7961]

no ! for I do not want to date , marry someone who can give me a sexually transmitted disease ! Thanks

[bladedshard]

You can be bi and a virgin. And you can get stds from straight men

[CharlieBadger]

Do you think straight people can't spread STDs to other straight people?

[Anonymous]

As someone who’s pansexual (no, not the cookware🍳) I’d definitely be open to it 🙂

[MikeAndMolly]

My fiancee used to identify as bi, now identifies as pan. I make pan puns a lot.

I'm pretty sure she's gonna smack me upside the head one of these days.

Just hope she doesn't hit me with a -

[MikeAndMolly]

like iron skillet or something. That'd hurt.

[Opinion Owner]

😂 nice

[R4vedave]

Absolutely I would, especially since I'm bi myself.

[Kkaos]

I only find straight women attractive so I wouldn't.

[askanythingbidude]

I wouldn't care I'm out to a few as bi so I wouldn't care

[Romolo]

Yes, I would date someone who is openly bi. No reason not to, in my opinion.

[xkildy]

No thank you I prefer to fight with only one side of this world not both

[AynonOMouse]

I don't believe that bi people would be faithful/exclusive long term. They would always feel like they are missing out.

[Boppy]

Can that be applied to straight people as well?

[MissDawn7961]

you got that right

[MissDawn7961]

@Boppy - straight people only date and marry straight normal people

[Boppy]

@MissDawn7961 I should have clarified. I think that bi people feeling like they are missing out sounds like straight people feeling like they are missing out.

Unless bi people biologically dislike monogamy?

[TremorJay]

I guess I'd give it a try? I don't think I'd like it, but who knows

[Lurdie]

Lmao why not? Also why is bi synonymous with infidelity they're not the same thing bros

[humanearth]

Why not, they're more open to three somes and group sex.

[sean1234]

Date an immoral person? I think not! Convince them they are in sin and exorcise those demons, YES!

[sean1234]

... besides being bi means that girl isn't supposedly with me anyways. Being bi means she doesn't like me and is with a girl instead and if she is with me, then she isn't bi because she is dating a guy and the woman I finally date I'm going to marry and be with till death do us part which meant that bisexuality was long gone and totally forgotten as if it never happened. .

[DanOh2018]

Yes, there are a lot of dumb assumptions people make.

[RedThread]

Yeah why not? If they're into monogamous relationships then I'm down.

[MannySimms]

The possibilities are wonderful! And no need to cheat.

[Kritssh]

Of course. There is nothing wrong with any sexual orientation and that doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

No, I would not. I want a monogamous relationship in which each of us is fully capable of satisfying 100% of the other's sexual desires. Obviously I as a man cannot do that for a bisexual woman.

[Riddler1412]

Hasn't happened yet, but if my future girlfriend was bi, ok.

[Stingray275]

I don't see why not. As long as they are committed to our relationship it doesn't bother me.

[Dchrls78104]

No, I wouldn't. Once you are not a fully heterosexual, natural born adult female, you are undatable for me.

[megaman242]

Yes, is there any reason to not date someone that is bi?

[MissDawn7961]

you may find out soon

[megaman242]

Why would I find out?

[admles]

As long as she was faithful, it wouldn't bother me. She'd have to agree that her having sex with a woman would still be cheating.

[franklyfit]

Yes as long as it is being dealt in my absence cause I'm straight. But i need to know bout it :) won't bother me much

[jasco]

i don't care if someone is bi lots of people ik are so it doesn't bother me

[13IsALuckyNumber]

Oh no, they have a more open mind set then me, whatever shall I do?

[soleil2666]

A woman, yes.
A man, no.
But then I don't date men anyhow, I'm the rare 100% straight breed

[Codywow]

As long as she's exclusive and doesn't expect to be allowd to cheat.

[CT_CD]

Yes. At least they admit it. Most women are bi but say they're straight

[CuriousMufuxka]

No. Can't date what arguably doesn't exist.. Everyone has a preference.

[Finnfoso]

Maybe, I don't believe all bi people like both sex equally, but that doesn't mean they're not bi. Having a preference doesn't make you straight or gay though.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@Finnfoso Nothing makes anyone straight or gay. We just are one or the other.

[markkick]

I've had a girlfriend that was bi , 2 women are hot

[Anonymous]

Am currently dating a bi girl, I am closeted night myself

[Cactusqueen]

It wouldn’t bother me personally

[SydneySentinel]

No, probably not.

[ecfresh]

Of course. Several gfs have been bi

[Nxtawm]

Yeah but dang twice the competition.

[JetJas]

Only if I feel eyes on me..

[JetJas]

Whoops, wrong question sorry😅

[someginger]

Yeah most of my ex's have been bi

[CharlieBadger]

Sure thing, it would be hypocritical to not.

[desperatelyhungry]

No, I think it's a turn off when a guy is bi 💁

[Anonymous]

I’d date bi woman if she willing girl that’s still in the closet.

[Ian849]

Yes, I'm bi so yeah I'm okay with that lol

[Legendhardon]

Only a girl ofcourse☺

[Bellaboo01]

It's more paranoia but yes

[aa180]

Yes, I can't stand straight women.

[WistfulBookworm]

Sure. There's nothing wrong with being bi.