When it comes to dating - what does reaching each base mean?

[Anonymous]

In your country, what happens at each base?

Do girls talk about this in the same way as guys?

Which base is your limit on a first date?

[Jaarraduun]

I'm really bad with baseball analogies, but I personally wouldn't go bast handholding on a first date. Unless we have been close friends for years, in which case, I'll let her lean on my shoulder or put her head on my chest. Nothing more then that on a first date though. Kinda old fashioned like that I suppose lol

[ShadezMcgee]

1st Base= Kissing/making out

2nd Base= Handies, below the waist touching.

3rd Base= Oral Sex

Home Run= Sex

Now. In terms of am actual first date, 1st Base is reasonable if the chemistry is there and the vibe is welcoming.

[petitedollbabee]

That’s something I haven’t heard since I was a kid.. I don’t know anyone over 16 who still refers to things as 1st, 2nd or 3rd base etc.

[EricSummer]

In my country, Switzerland, hardly anybody knows how baseball works. So we have to get by without this analogy.

[slatyb]

That hasn't been a thing in the US since about.1967. It was always rather juvenile.

[Anonymous]

This is nonsense 14-year-olds say.

[Asker]

Were you 14 once?