Is it weird if a girl is still shy around their boyfriend? Guys, would you feel offended if your girlfriend still feels shy around u even after 2yrs?

[Anonymous]

[provokeesmokee]

Yes. I mean, I broke up with an exgf after 5 months because she was that shy/afraid of physical touch.

I'm very physically affectionate and her constant literal running away from me got tiresome and hurtful. But I also recognized she was just someone uncomfortable with touch and affection, and turned out she discovered she is asexual as well.

Which is no issue, but I am a highly sexual person, so it was best for us to break up.

But for me, yeah, if you're still shy around me after months of dating, I'm not willing to entertain that.

I am looking for folks interested in me and interested in being with me, who will actually be with me.

[Nikki1989]

That would be very weird. I don't see how it is possible.

[MikeInHawaii]

I don’t know what’s in her past. A neighbor’s eleven-year-old daughter had been abused half her life by the men who hung out with her crackhead mother. She was afraid of me for about six months, probably normal for a girl who has been abused by men. Then, very abruptly, she became a pest and would cling to me.

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't get to 2 years.

[Hithere4567]

After 2 years, yes.

[Asker]

What about 1 year?

[Hithere4567]

I would think a few months is plenty of time to feel comfortable with someone.