Guys, is being shy for a girl a turn off for you?

[Anonymous]

I am shy but not with the ones I got along after finding them. I don't initiate conversations first unless the other one takes the lead. I got female friends mostly as I rarely get along with guys but that doesn't mean I am into women. I rarely post even I am confident and love myself. I am not a trend follower, I do things according to my comfort and my preferences. Do women like me a turn off? Cause we don't give a cool social butterfly vibe?

[sawno]

"I am not a trend follower, I do things according to my comfort and my preferences. " Love this. "I don't initiate conversations first unless the other one takes the lead." if I have to do it every single time I assume she's not interested and move on.

[Asker]

I think when someone's initiate with me first I know I am open to talk to them, that's just how I think when making friends... I too don't like being a rude person when the other is just trying to be friendly.

[Berethor]

Might be hard to talk to girl like that, but you a virgin don't you? and it's good thing.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Asker]

Yeah I am, and yes, it is hard for some to talk to me but once they do it's all good.

[Berethor]

Yea breaking the ice, I am sure that it worthing the effert so it's okay. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Moe

[Anonymous]

No that’s actually sexy. It’s a turn on. It’s intriguing. Assuming she’s cute cause I mean let’s face it men usually pursue looks first. But yes it’s sexy. A lot of men don’t want a girl who is out there like look at me look at me. Women like that are obnoxious. They want attention, especially from numerous men. A girl who is shy usually doesn’t act that way. Plus she’s probably got better morals, better values, probably make a better girlfriend or wife. The only way it may turn him off is if she’s not reciprocating a smile if he smiles or makes eye contact w her. He may think she’s not interested.

[shortster]

Not really. It just makes communication difficult as I am shy too.

[OtterMan68]

all depends. If I see a woman at a bar, for example, and she's not making eye contact or acknowledging me if I smile at her, it's a turn off.

[Asker]

Obviously it is.

[Anonymous]

You don't know how cute that is..

[aceleon]

no it is a turn on