Is 178 cm a bad height for a guy?

Question

As a girl I'm 175 cm and the guy I've just started dating is 178 cm. Do you think it is a problem for a couple? Is 178 cm a bad height for a guy?

lemonette · Accepted Answer

First off, 178 cm is actually above average in many parts of the world. I know, maybe you're not towering over everyone like a basketball player, but you're definitely not short either. It's a height that won't get you disqualified from roller coasters but also won't make you bump your head on every doorway.

Now, I get it, some people make a big deal about height, especially when it comes to dating. You see profiles that say stuff like, "Swipe left if you're under 6 feet," and it can feel like a punch in the gut. But let me tell you, if someone's that hung up on a few centimeters, they're probably not the kind of person you want to be with long-term anyway. You want someone who digs you for you, not for how tall you stand when you're lined up against a wall.

And let's talk about the practical stuff. Being around 178 cm is actually pretty convenient. Most things in the world are designed for people of average height. You're not gonna struggle to reach the top shelf in most places, and airplane seats won't feel like torture chambers (well, no more than they do for the rest of us, at least).

Bottom line: 178 cm is what you make of it. Own it, don't let it own you. If you walk around like you're self-conscious about your height, people will pick up on that. But if you stride into a room like you own the place, nobody's gonna stop and pull out a measuring tape. Confidence usually leaves a longer-lasting impression than how tall you appear in a doorway. So go ahead, stand tall, my man. You're doing just fine.

xKayTea · Accepted Answer

I personally do not see the deal, he is still taller than you. However if you cannot let go of this physical preference, it is best you do not continue your relationship, as you will end up hurting him,

Everyones preferences are different, I for example, am dating a guy slightly shorter than me and perfectly happy, my exes were a lot taller than me and honestly, the whole 'short girl tall guy' thing is over-rated and I found aspects of dating tall men awkward, but never someone slightly shorter or the same height.

I won't judge you for your preferences, but if it is a deal breaker, he has a right to know and you should leave.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

I don’t see it as an issue. I know women who have married men shorter than them though usually that isn’t the case. Plus he is still taller than you are. So long you’re attracted to him, he treats you well, and he has a good personality I don’t think him only being a few cm different matters

skunk3n · Accepted Answer

Oh dear, this heightism again..

Girls think guys are so superficial...

But we guys aren't the one who completely put aside 85%(15% of males in US is 6ft or taller) of opposite sex, just because we don't feel "protected" and can't wear heels..

Security doesn't alone create protection from height. Step in 1900+ civilization and find out there's more that create security.

adidas0169 · Accepted Answer

I have always hear girls/women say I don't like short guys. they can't be under this height etc. my wife is that person. for her no one could have been under 6ft and no skinny guys but I'm 6'2 and about 250lbs. so yes girls/women are guilty of the height thing just like guys are guilty of the weight thing.

sukumamu · Answer

Guys she's being self-conscious, that's a universal human trait, don't berate her over that.

If by "bad height for a guy" you mean "other women might judge me for dating someone 'that short' ", then maybe. But the women who judge you for that would probably judge you for dating just about anybody. It sucks to be the subject of gossip but when you date someone there's no avoiding that anyway. If people judge you for it, that is squarely a 'them' problem, not a 'you' problem.

Instead just focus on why you like your boyfriend and dwell on his positive traits. And if you're feeling a bit petty, brag about him to those who judge him for height. Tell them what he got you for Valentine's day or how well he treats you, and especially if a single woman mentions his height negatively, just flex the fact that you're dating a wonderful person, and casually transition to asking about their dating life. That type of person would probably mald over it.

-ann- · Answer

Same here, been dating guys under 180 cm all my life, as a 175 cm female. It’s a pain in the a** in my opinion…unfortunately there are a lot of very nice guys inside and out under 180 cm, but for me it’s a turn off and stopped dating these guys because I feel like they lack the masculinity and that protection feeling that I get from tall men. Again I want to say that this is entirely my opinion and that doesn’t mean that men under 180 are less, but I guess everyone has their preferences and neither of us should take anything personally. Sorry if anyone gets offended by this, it was definitely not meant like that but only to give an opinion to the lady 🥰

Berethor · Answer

A guy should be at least 5 inches taller than a girl, so yea he is too short for you I believe.

Anonymous · Answer

why are you acting like this is a dealbreaker for you? you're still shorter than him. and by your age, you're not a teen anymore so you shouldn't care what other people think of your relationship, especially something as small as height... the only bad thing here is you feeling self conscious about something so ridiculous.

i_am_tbjxii · Answer

175 cm (5’8) is fine lol. He’s about 5’10 don’t see an issue lol. Even if all the would matter is that you love each other. I think that’s something very minuscule to worry about since you guys are already dating. Embrace your height since that’s what makes you well you lol.

JayFromEngland · Answer

In my opinion it's extremely insignificant. As long as you're both happy then good for you.

From what I hear about common preferences, many would consider his height to meet their minimum requirement.

Adaeva · Answer

That depends on his other attributes. 178 cm, more or less, is the average male height in most non-Asian countries. However, 80% of men are undesirable, and most desirable men are taller.

FreyaRed · Answer

too short for my taste, I'm 178cm by myself but I guess for shorter girl who doesn't wear heels it's 178 okay.

ZamerZ · Answer

Nah, it's perfect. Personally, I don't really care about height - I've dated guys shorter and taller than me. But 178cm feels like a great in-between.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

no, but if you see it as a problem, you are the problem. If a friend tells you otherwise and tries to tell you some kind of "rule" or norm, unfriend them

JSmuve · Answer

More like is 175 cm a bad height for a woman? And the answer is, it is not ideal. You should work on becoming shorter so that you're more attractive 🙄

Grovermint · Answer

If you're that focused on his height vs the rest of what he has to offer, he's better off without you. End it for his sake or get past this bollocks.

AngelLily · Answer

No hight is a bad hight. Hight isn’t like being morbidly obese or anorexic. If he’s good then stay

Anemone978 · Answer

No he has a good height you are just too tall lol

strateguy632 · Answer

for you, seems necessary but usually too tall. too.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If you really care about height that bad, it's not bad for him, but bad for you. It's Your problem, after all.

lorenzomichael · Answer

I don't know what the fuck is 178 cm is. I'm sure I can look it up. However I do believe if a guy is 7 ft tall that's to fucking tall. Hope that helps you in finding an answer.

aquamarine321 · Answer

I don’t see how height makes a relationship successful or not, but I guess it’s a female thing, like why men prefer slim vs thick and girls with big ass vs girls with small ass

nik0102 · Answer

It really depends on whether or not you would be OK with it in the long run. I am 1.76 and my ex 1.79. After 2 years of repression, she finally cheated on me with a much taller man

Guido · Answer

Those are the same heights for Mt wife and I. While I would have preferred a bit more of a height difference, it hasn't been an issue for the past 30 years so it really does not matter at all.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Me and my partner are around those heights. It's fine

TallAnon · Answer

Why would it be "bad", think he won't be able to reach for the fruit while scavenging? Height is irrelevant.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Ok, you’re two inches apart. What exactly is the problem here?

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not see things that people have zero control over as good or bad.

Staximus · Answer

Are you serious at your age? Why does it even matter?

Anonymous · Answer

It's a great height. The problem is that you are quite tall too. by the way if 178 cm is short in your opinion then what about shorter men?

awrux · Answer

It doesen't matter as long as you like eachother.

brianamau · Answer

Not bad at all

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Height should be the least of your worries

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Not at all. It's good!

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

That’s a very nice height. Go for it!

artgorgeous · Answer

Don't wear high heels.

Jojojojojojojo · Answer

I think it’s ok.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Not unless you  make  it an issue.

RingOfFire · Answer

What does a "bad height" mean?

Cubus · Answer

Depends if you like to wear heels

EaterPeter · Answer

It can be only as bad as you see it.

In_Trance · Answer

What do you mean by bad?

helva · Answer

Nothing wrong

butterly248 · Answer

Good height

boobliker · Answer

five foot 8in is ok

hiraaaaaa · Answer

No ı think

srsamet · Answer

Normal

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