Would you be ok seeing your boyfriend twice a month?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend not only is very busy at work and brings work home but he’s not so well organized.
As a result, we meet twice a month.

Is anyone on the same situation?

How does this sound to you?

[HollyK21]

No, I would definitely not be ok with that, it’s hard for me to even go the 1 1/2 days a week I don’t see my partner due to his work. However, at the end of the day it doesn’t matter where our comforts lie. It’s about how you feel in your relationship, and being honest with yourself about what works for you and what doesn’t. Ask yourself first if you are ok with this arrangement, and if not then maybe it is better to end it so you can be with someone more available.

[Nxtawm]

It depends on the distance, if they’re 4 hours away or more then yeah but if they live in the same city or only 1-2 hours away, I would not be okay with it.

[spartan55]

Twice a month? Sounds like a definite no go for me.

[Simslover92]

Me and my boyfriend live 2 hours away and only see each other once a month if that. It's been almost 2 months since I've seen him now. 😢

[Akam93]

I'm not ok without seeing my husband for a week.