Is it a bad sign when your boyfriend went from wanting to see you 3 times a week to only 2 times?

[Anonymous]

Boyfriend and I work 5 days a week and usually make time for each other on weekends. My boyfriend of 5 months used to ask me to hangout with him on Fridays usually at his house. For the last month, he's only invited me over on Saturday and Sunday stating that he's "tired" on Fridays. He used to ask me to stay long on Sundays, now he politely asks me to leave by Sunday afternoon. Another thing he stopped doing was text me right after we part ways. Now he waits hours after I leave before he sends a text. Are these signs that he is losing interest?

[masdee18704]

Given the time frame it's normal. The first 3 to 6 months are honeymoon faze. We're u put time with them over needs like sleep an work etc. It's worse with guys than girls for some reason. But by 6 months guys slow down trying an all the love stuff. Think of it like getting a new toy when u first get it u play with it all the time then after some time it's less than when first got it. If I was u I'd just ask him 1 if he thinks ur through the honeymoon faze. An 2 uve noticed these things an ur curious the reason something u did maybe. An state clearly ur only asking cuz he's important an u care. An if it's something cuz of you then u want to work on it. FYI I'm a guy too. In my 30s just to give u an idea of my amount of experience with these kind of things

[Asker]

I think that's really the case. He may have lost the high of being in a relationship and feels a bit suffocated. Do you think it would be best to talk about breaking up?

[masdee18704]

Do u want to break up? If no then I wouldn't. If it's is just normal honeymoon stuff that kinda convo will do nothing but make him pull back much more

[masdee18704]

Unless u have more signs than listed u mention breaking up his head will run with is that what she wants an make him put his guard up

[Flower_Power]

They sound like they are, but there could be an explanation. Mention it to him. Don't act overly upset about it, and instead just ask for him to be frank.

[In_Trance]

not really

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

He's really invested atm