I tried to makeout during my first kiss with her and while doing it she said I m moving too fast and ask me to leave as he wants some privacy. ?

[Anonymous]

We met online over 3 weeks ago and have hung out 2 times before we first kissed. i tried to makeout during my first kiss with her and while doing it she said i m moving too fast and ask me to leave as he wants some privacy? Afte that i called her next 2 days but she didn’t pickup the phone and also i texted her 2 times apologising for my behaviour if i crossed any limits and telling her i am open to have a conversation and also i respect her feelings. What else i should do

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She is 20 years and i am 27 years old. But i really like her and want to talk to her

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And also i see her now everyday in the gym as we both have the same same time and it is getting really awkward for me

[DaveJord]

I think you blew this one my man. But honestly, third you go for a tongue kiss doesn't sound crazy to me. But a bad kiss is a bad kiss, like I have kissed a woman and it was terrible. That really ruined the mood.

But if this woman was not ready for that, then yeah maybe she is doing you a favor. I know you just wasted weeks and days on this, but that is how it goes. But you got to be able to read the situation and not press it... so if you got it that terribly wrong, then it just not meant to be.

The fact that you feel the need to apologize tells me you know it was wrong.

[Asker]

Do i look like really creep?
From earlier day she was asking me for a sleepover at her place many time and that also she invited me for a sleepover. I know its not an invitation for sex but then also thought she’s also attracted and feeling the same way which i was feeling

[DaveJord]

Inivited for sleep over and you passed on it? Why?

Sure maybe it's not a direct invitation for sex, but it's not disinvited. I am I don't think its creepy to go for kiss on the 3rd date... but if she reacted that way then she's not into it.

[RavVid]

I think be friendly in greeting her at the gym but no more. She might come around but I think she would have been ready if she was into you..

[_Maya_]

That's all you really can do. Apologize and give her some time. You could always tell her that you are fine if she wants to slow things down and that you are happy to let her dictate how quick things move. Other than that wait and hope she comes around and wants to talk again or give it another shot. She could just be busy too. Presumably you don't know her every day routine so maybe she is just taking some time and keeping busy.

[Nikki1989]

You have no choice but to respect her wishes.

[Iron_Man]

That’s why you have to know when the girls ready and don’t give her tongue on the first kiss