"High value man" is the same as objectification of women, do you agree?

[Anonymous]

The concept of a man being "high value" is the same as objectifying women, women just aren't bashed for applying arbitrary value to a man.

Also men are usually considered high value based on their looks, it's only later that the way they behave is factored into their value. Women will even flat out refuse to date guys that aren't high value.

This issue feeds a lot into men's mental health problems and suicide, something that I've experienced personally.

Can we please address this and start applying value to people based on actually important things, rather than if they are able to pay for your meal on the first date.

[Lionman95]

No not necessarily because it depends on the definition of "high value man", because it doesn´t have to involve objectifying women. What is actually important to you?
My current problem with the term "high value" man is that it´s describing many aspects that men should have anyways it´s making common sense look more special than it should be. Like for instance being able to carry the responsibility for your decisions, something I read is supposed to be an aspect of a "high value man".

[inhua]

probably is if that's how you want to interpret it

I wouldn't say the term "High Value Man" is responsible for men's mental health and suicide. fact of the matter is, men should be allowed to know the reason why they and other men having varying degrees of desirability from women, why some have lots and why some have none

now if they can't handle the truth, that's an entirely different matter

[Anonymous]

I don’t think the term “high value man” is objectifying to men. Making comments about your height, penis size, weight and muscles is objectifying. Referring to a man as “high value” doesn’t necessarily mean “high quality” either.

[LazerBean]

No, it's not. First, because men are almost exclusively the ones who even use the term "high value man" and two because a high value Man by today's standards would just be an average man by 60 years agos standards.

[Anonymous]

9 times out of 10 when you see someone talking about a high value male, its a male speaking.