Older men, would you like your younger partner to act hard to get and playful or be direct and honest?

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Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Direct and honest at first and then once the relationships been established, she can be as playful and mischievous as she wants.

many relationships are damaged or hampered, because of mixed messages and misunderstandings. Once the relationship is established in the boundaries are in place and you understand what kind of sense of humor your partner has then the playfulness and silliness can be used to its full affect without having to worry about being offended.

Sevenpointfive · Accepted Answer

don't act hard to get. it's hard enough to get hard before i can get you. but yes i've kicked out bonerkillers in bed before. no one wants your dying virginity handed over in a night of lust in a young boys mind. and have it turn into a number amongst the many bodies she's slayne in bed had i never known if it wasn't for this diary.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

I don't want to play games, I'm here for a relationship. If he wants to play he can go do that with someone else.

AviatorTom · Answer

Direct and honest please. I'm too old to chase much.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Hmm damn it I guess I'm older men now lol. If I was dating someone significantly younger, which I'm not sure I would, I would want direct and honest. You can be playful and hard to get in certain scenarios for fun but not with everything lol. That's for young people hahaha

Lliam · Answer

I never liked the "play hard to get" game. I prefer genuine. Let me know how you feel. Be up front. But playful is a plus.

Anonymous · Answer

Direct and honest. I’m not playing no stupid games, if she likes me let me know. Maybe once something is established she can play hard to get, be playful. But I have a lot of things going on. I don’t mean emotionally, or baggage, I mean on the way of working, doing things, working OT, fixing my house, traveling, etc. I don’t have time to figure out if she likes w or not if she’s playing games.

molonski2 · Answer

I've dated and gone out with a number of much younger women and I've been doing it for a long time , I like " direct and honest " things change as you get older , and you get sick of the games and playing , just be direct.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

There has never been an age where I wanted hard to get. Men of any value just see that as games, and there's a line behind you of women who aren't going to play those.

stratford · Answer

If she were coming on too strongly I would be worried about her motives (gold digger for example). I would prefer her to be herself and then we can see if there is a genuine connection.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

As I've gotten older, I have less and less patience for little games like that. If you're interested, show your interest.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I am older than 30, and so I feel addressed here. I prefer women who are straight to the point; even if that ''hurts''.

Huntingnfishin · Answer

I'm hoping that I'm not an older man. But while playful and hard to get are cute. I think as men get older they appreciate when women are more honest and confident.

Berethor · Answer

Hard to get is stupid unless she is virgin, so I am not want her to act like that, that's stupid.

Billlewis · Answer

I'm very easy to please; all I want is for her to restrict my sexual access to her to oral, foot and anal worship, while she enjoys the freedom to date other guys whenever she wants.

Guido · Answer

I would like a combination of playful but honest and direct. I am not a fan of hard to get but flirty and fun is definitely a good way to be.

msc545 · Answer

Hard to get is a very juvenile game that adults were old enough to have sex or even old enough to have romance shouldn't be playing.

Anonymous · Answer

Direct and honest. But I realize she's a woman. So I'm realistic about the likelihood of that.😆

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'm to old to play games like that. Just be honest and direct

es20490446e · Answer

For love, flirting works better in practice than being direct. It lets the other person grasp how do you behave sensually, without the pressures of requiring an instant and direct answer.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'd like any partner to be direct and honest. Why play games?

Jdodkfndosn · Answer

Direct and honest but not the type that always says the first thing that pops in her head without considering consequences

Fireguy17 · Answer

Direct and honest. I'm an adult, so I don't play those games anymore.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Direct. I just don't have the energy anymore to play silly games.

Redstang88 · Answer

Playing hard to get has never made a guy more interested. Anywhere. Ever

Anonymous · Answer

Playing hard to get is one of the most immature things a girl can do. I have zero tollerance for immature girls who play head games like that.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No! Hard to get makes me lose interest quickly. Just be honest and kind.

Staximus · Answer

I'm too old for silly games

dudeinohio · Answer

Direct and honest. No games.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Be direct if she likes me.

Jerre · Answer

I prefer direct and honest

VikingWarLord · Answer

Daddy likes when you do what Daddy says

Pete671 · Answer

Direct and honest,,,

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Depends on the person

OnlyMeee · Answer

Definitely direct and honest

shortster · Answer

Direct and honest

riverrat3 · Answer

Honest

eagle1951 · Answer

both

Anonymous · Answer

direct and honest

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