A guy I went on dates with is now gossiping to everyone about me. How should I react?

[Ghjyhhhh]

I don’t plan to react at all. At first I was kinda flattered that someone would find me so important they go talking about me and the fact others would listen too. I’m not used to that lol. I feel famous! And we didn’t even kiss or anything at all.

[loveslongnails]

I guess that depends on what he's saying, but the word "gossip" implies idle rumors and unsubstantiated stories. Even if he's gushing about how wonderful you are, that ends up sounding like bragging. Others listen because people love gossip, and they were probably hoping to hear something juicy about you! How you react is up to you - how can we tell you what to do?

[Ghjyhhhh]

Well gossip looks bad and so does bragging. I can feel good about that I didn’t tell anyone at work anything about what happened. Which wasn’t much except we went on some dates.

[loveslongnails]

Agreed. My words to live by are "Loose Lips Sink Ships", and what happens on dates should remain between the people who went on the date.

[Ghjyhhhh]

Yup. The fact the guy himself is blabbing is absurd too.

[Romeo0071234]

He’s a dumbass. He might even be ruining his chances with other girls as well.. as many might hear this and won’t trust going out with him.


You’re better off without out that man-boy

[strateguy632]

tell him "don't kiss and tell" to stop telling people personal stuff.

[jimmy2]

Well it's like this
You don't like it why did you do it

[In_Trance]

Ignorance

[riverrat3]

Ignore it