I have a serious question that I can’t seem to find an answer to?

[Anonymous]

Why is it that me as being someone who is single and have a desire to be in a relationship always get approached by my type (men) why are unavailable or married and than what hurts is knowing that nothing will happen with them bc why would you want to pursue something with a married man who showes interest in you, so that’s what been happening to me and I am currently upset and hurt bc they try pursuing something with me when it’s just stupid and both will eventually get hurt

[littlemissasks]

Hey girl. Right now there are a bag of men that are in this "what else can I get" mode. They have a great woman but then see someone else and start to fantasize a better life with them as opposed to who they have with them. I encounter these type of men and it bugs the heck out of me. It's almost as if they are trying to line up another female just in case the relationship they have goes sour.

It says nothing about you because how would you know that they were unavailable/married?

There's just that much more type of guys out there that are unsatisfied with who they are with and are hoping someone else can fill the void. Our job as single women is to not entertain them.

[Asker]

Right I love you’re answer quite simple and clear!

[Audette]

When it's a repeated cycle then probably there is some introspection to do. Cause nothing happens for no reason. Maybe there is something you need to learn or understand or accept so that you can move on.

[Asker]

What exactly do you mean by that like accept or learn what am I trying to learn?

[Hobbert]

Those married men could be separated from their spouse but can't afford a divorce and wanted to go back into dating.
It's understood that it's a big risk to date someone who is separated as I only just found out myself.
Most men wants to date younger women because by the time the women age hits 30+, their fertility rate declines (ability to get pregnant). This decline happens faster once you reach your mid-30s.

[Anonymous]

Because you aren't interested in single men.

[Anonymous]

Married men are the biggest cheaters out there. Run!

[Asker]

Right like why lead me on etc and than make me hurt why do I always have to go through that

[Hobbert]

You're too quick to Judge.

[Jmmmfi4]

Just unlucky I guess

[Asker]

Unlucky huh

[shortster]

Bad luck.