How to not be bitter?

[Anonymous]

I am a 29M and have never been in a relationship. Up until recently I could not even get the time of day from any women my age. If I am totally honest this treatment hurt and made me feel rather depressed and ashamed for quite some time.

Recently however I have noticed I have been getting quite a bit more attention from a number of women my age. The problem is I just can’t get past this bitterness. Before I get straw-manned, no it is not that I am more attracted to younger women, nor is it that I think women are washed up at 30. It is just that after being rejected by women my age for so long, I am now unattracted to them due to the bitterness. How do I move past it?

[Avicenna]

This probably isn't something you can solve on your own. See a therapist who can help you find strategies to cope with this anger.

[boobliker]

don't enjoy the younger ones I do and just listen to all they have to say and let it pass through you and they will like you even more, but the younger ones just let them ride you and don't pass them up.

[Anonymous]

You need therapy. You are obviously too immature for a serious relationship.

[Iron_Man]

Keep your head up think positive

[In_Trance]

therapy