Do you think it's messed up if a guy doesn't text you at all for over a week about the second date he wants to take you on but then... ?

[Anonymous]

He messages you last minute on the weekend. It annoys me and pisses me off. I was free the weekend but I didn't like how long he waited in contacting me so I told him I'm busy and can't meet up.

I didn't want to seem like I was at his beck and call. So I told him if he wants to set up a date he's got to do it ahead of time not at the last minute. That just annoys me, it's like he doesn't respect me or he thinks I am waiting around for him.

[BigDog1989]

STOP PLAYING GAMES

IMMATURE PEOPLE PLAY GAMES

[Asker]

he's playing games by waiting last minute

[BigDog1989]

As are you

[Asker]

He told me he's not a big texter so I give him space for that reason

[BigDog1989]

Who is a big texter these days.

Again, you're BOTH PLAYING GAMES

[Asker]

I knew it, I knew he was playing games. So what do you advise that I do?

[BigDog1989]

And so are you

[Asker]

You going to help me out or just keep pointing fingers?

[BigDog1989]

you're BOTH PLAYING GAMES

[Asker]

Ok well if you don't have anything else constructive to say I will bid you farewell.

[BigDog1989]

I LITERALLY TOLD YOU. TO STOP PLAYING GAMES

[Asker]

Ohhh... Ok. It's registering now.

[BigDog1989]

yeah