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+1 yI've been with three virgins. I never got the appeal, personally. I think it's nearly unfathomable to understand why 90% of men are looking for 5% of women, when many of those 90% don't bring a whole lot to the table anyway. Let's assume virgins are the highest caliber of woman. Okay well you're a bagger at walmart and you live in your mom's basement. You think you rate that? Or virgins have no intrinsic value, in which case why do you care so much? It seems like there's some self-reflection missing from a lot of guys. Now the ones that DO have their ist together (other than wanting a virgin, but i digress) are probably older than the bagger in his mom's basement, so now you're the 40 year old looking for the 20 year old (haha... if). Do you really have enough in common with a 20 year old that you want to spend your life with her? Some of the ARE really mature, yeah, I got you. I've dated a few of them, but they're the minority of an already minority population, and one i've always found overvalued.
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@xKayTea Haha thank you much.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yMost adult women ARE NOT virgins. We are ALL sexual. And we ARE ALL promiscuous. Not promiscuous in the sense of many partners. But getting bored of one and moving to the next.
ALLL OF US. MALES AND FEMALES.
Women in nations that subjugate them, are likely virgins until marriage. But those women require a male who’s also highly religious and a virgin himself. So if one of these American Predators tried going over there he’s not meeting the standards of their community and their religion. He will be denied.😂
If you’re NOT a virgin, YOU DONT DESERVE a virgin. Plain and simple. The only guys who are more likely to come across virgin women who are 24 or older. Are men with high testosterone, highly attractive, get many women, extremely masculine. ONLY BECAUSE THEY GET MANY WOMEN WHO WANT THEM. Only because some of those ladies might be virgin. Those are the only ones who will take the virginity of certain women.
IF YOU DONT FIT IN THAT CATEGORY. you're OUT OF THAT GAME.If you go to a more traditional nation looking for a virgin… that virgin is not likely to even look at you 😂
Most men are MEANT to die as virgin. This happens through all of nature. The best quality male, most sexually demorphic male, gets all the females. Wether the females are virgin or not. 🖕 It is what it is. 😂
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+1 yI don’t think it’s a waste of time wanting to date and marry a virgin, because those women do exist. I honestly think it’s a bigger waste of time when men watch pornography and base their desires around that. It ruins their perception of women and their perception of what is beautiful.
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Porn doesn't ruin or even change anyone's perception of what is or isn't beautiful. People's sexual preferences are encoded into them by their own genetics, and will vary person to person. Which is why so many porn genres and sub genres exist, because not everyone wants to see the same stuff.
But yes, virgin women exist, so I'm staying a virgin until I find my match.
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI think guys are wasting thier time with MOST women, f*** whether they're virgins or not.
Yes I do think dating a virgin is the ldeal (sorry ladies). But it should not be a guys focus. Sometimes a woman has to choose a guy who is a dog to learn his is a dog and not do that again. I do think body count IS important. It's one thing to choose a dog. It's quite another thing to not learn from it and repeat that mistake over and over.
So what I'm saying is stop worrying about whether they're a virgin. Focus in on whether she's a QUALITY person.
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+1 yPlenty of virgins to go around.
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@EmyyWolf I am 52 I would hope not
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@EmyyWolf does it count if my webcam model is a virgin making video calls to me?
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@RoοstеrBrеаst Web cam, huh? And you believe her?
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@YesterdaysChild I'm bullshitting.
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@RoοstеrBrеаst I should have known. 😮😅🤣
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I can’t believe I actually agree with something Emmywolf says. She’s right. I was only able to see part of what she said since she blocked me for giving it to her straight, she is 100 percent spot on when she says that they’re all promiscuous because it’s true. Women have 100 guys in their face daily, eventually the option they want to fuck is going to present itself.
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@jeffend888 Only those without any self control.
+1 yLet me reverse that. Do you think women are wasting their time if they remain a virgin but can't find a guy who is a virgin? Why is it that guys seek something, like virginity, when they have nothing to offer in return? Isn't that actually kind of hypocritical?
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I can’t fathom being a virgin past the age of 18.
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@Exterminatore a lot of men dont have a choice
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@Exterminatore I take it you think someone 18 is able to raise a child should a pregnancy occur? How are they going to pay child's support working at McDonald's? Let's face it, when some people get hot and bothered all rational thought goes out the door.
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@yesterdays
I’m simply saying it’s hard for me to imagine anyone being a virgin past the age of 18. Most especially past the age of 20.
I’m not promoting fornication nor out of wedlock births, nor anyone having children before they’re ready. I’m just simply saying it’s hard for me to imagine someone being 25, 27, even 30 and never having had a sexual experience. Particularly in todays day and age where everyone ie hooking up left and right. Also not all sex or sexual activity results in pregnancy, particularly when birth control is used properly as you well know.
That’s all I’m saying. Yes, rational though does go out the window with some when they get hot and bothered. - +1 y
I'm a virgin, as are a lot of other guys. So no, those women are not wasting their time remaining a virgin until they find a match.
453 opinions shared on Dating topic. No, men are allowed to want what they want and virgin females who are wiling to go for marriage aren't rare outside the western world. I highly advocate the "PassportBros" movement whereby western men move to other Asian or African countries to find a better match.
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+1 yNo. They are out there. But only thing you're wasting is the time searching for only virgins. Now if that's what you have to do because of your beliefs then you have to stick to them.
But if you search for the person and not the virgin or non-virgin you might be surprised on who you find.
10 ReplyDon't want to compromise on a dirty ho, and hos are likely to cheat so virgin girls are best.
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+1 yDepend the age range of the guy. Young teens and early 20's then there's a good chance they can have a virgin wife.
The average age of lost of virginity here in the U. S. is 16 or 17 years old for both genders.
A man 30 plus thinking he's going to have it easy find a virgin out in the real world and a virgin that likes him is definitely wasting his time and most likely the dude is a complete weirdo anyways being that old and focusing on virgin women only.
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+1 yTBH the reason that this virginity thing is ideal, is that a girl who hasn't had sex with a bunch of different guys is way less likely to just leave the relationship and divorce the guy, Sluttiness is not attractive except to really immature guys.
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+1 yAre there really men out there that still want that? I mean I’m sure they have their reasons, but what I really want to know is, are these men virgins themselves or just holding their potential brides to some unrealistic double standard?
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+1 yIf your top lifetime goal is to find a virgin, then you're not wasting your time. But is life only about finding a virgin? What kind of a goal is that? For why?
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+1 yI don't think that's a waste of time if that's what you believe in. But men also need to be realistic and accept that a lot of women 18+ are no longer virgins.
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+1 yYup. Virginity isn't the big deal many men think it is.
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+1 yIt's a waste of a man who feels the need to see that as how to attain a person's worth.
10 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. It seems like a waste especially since virgin women ain't nothing special
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Well, to a point yes.
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@Apple1996. Accept the little bit tighter pussy at beginning. Plus the mental and emotional gift the girl is giving the guy.
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Some girls feel that giving a guy they're virginity is.
2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I think men should be more concerned about remaining virgins themselves than whether or not the woman they marry is a virgin.
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+1 yNot at all christian guys always look for a virgin wife and in order for that to happen they need to meet a christian woman.
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+1 yI think they might be wasting their time looking for one but, from what I'm seeing, there's still a lot of them floatin' around well into their 20's and beyond!
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+1 yPlenty of virgins.. but if you wait too long there will be none left for you..
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+1 yReally what is a virgin? Yes I know the meaning. I need to know how you can be a 100% sure if he/she/it is or not.
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So why worry, if you are in love the past is the past and the future is the future.
5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Total ridiculous waste of time with not even a potential payoff. Some men live in a fantasy world that really does not exist.
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@KrakenAttackin Yeah he’s kinda right lol. Every now and then you’ll hear from women who don’t do PIV but they’re still doing other slutty stuff
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Some guys actually go as far as being *jealous* of guys that hit it before they did, and so by having a "virgin" they are stupidly more comfortable.
They never consider all the guys who came in her face and her mouth and her ass, and that she gave hand jobs and blow jobs to long before they met her. - +1 y
Yeah I don't know why but some girls will do everything but PIV. Its kinda weird lol
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Like if you’re gonna be sexual, you would think they’d also have done PIV
1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. there's no such thing as wasting time when looking for a good partner
00 Reply544 opinions shared on Dating topic. No, but you have to be The Right Guy. You have to prove yourself. Guys don't want to do that, they feel they are entitled to pussy.
00 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's not for young, high quality virgin men. For other men it's not realistic though.
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+1 yNo, not at all. All single guys should only date virgins. I will take the hit for the team and make the sacrifice of dating those who fail to meet that standard.
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+1 yYes, you should try hunting for unicorns. They're easier to find, and when you find one they're nicer to look at.
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+1 yIt is not a waste of time if it’s what he truly wants. He has his reasons for it and thats good enough
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+1 yNope, never a waste of time to go for what you want in life.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNo not at all. It is rare to find one so it can make it more difficult. But everyone is allowed to have their own prefrences.
00 Reply8.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don;t know. I think that there is more to a relationship than sex.
00 Replyyeah it’s a waste if time chance you gonna find one is low even if you do how you gonna know she a virgin it’s just weird asking that
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYes, but creeps like that will always exist.
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What exactly is creepy about wanting a woman with morals?
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+1 yPretty much. They should seek good qualities, not body count.
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+1 yProbably. But they'd also be wasting their time if they attempted to have a marriage with a whore.
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+1 yOnly if their value isn't high enough, otherwise it's a worthy pursuit.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yGetting married in general is a waste of time, and also a waste of money.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI mean some people have religious/cultural values so...
Now if you think that religion/culture itself is a waste of time then I don't know how to counter that
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYes. Just look for someone you share similar values with.
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I doubt a large percentage are trying to do that
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI have fucked tons of virgin girls, promiscuous women and older women. 💪💪
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+1 yYes, it's such an archaic way of thinking.
20 Reply 13.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, I do. That's just silly.
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+1 ybeinh a virgin is a good thing
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+1 yNo i don't settle for sluts
00 Reply 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not unless they're also a virgin
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+1 yYes because they are gay in the closet
00 ReplyI don’t think so at all.. it’s probably better.
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+1 yYes.
00 Reply 15K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah
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