Is it wrong to go off on a guy?

[Anonymous]

Is that a turn off for a lady to do that?

[spartan55]

For what?

[Asker]

Saying you go jump to me than go jump to another woman back to me like I’m done with you and just leave me alone and go jump back and forth with them but don’t be running to me bc I don’t play games like that and you not playing with me mind games you can do it with anyone else but not me

[Asker]

Was that rude? Bc he clearly got mad

[spartan55]

Why say anything? Just don't even entertain him.

[Asker]

Exactly so what I told him is that just leave me alone and go do you’re thing but not with me, and after that I stopped talking to him so did I do the right thing?

[Asker]

He clearly got upset bc after the talk he was trying to get my attention and looked like he was in the bad mood and he told that girl that I said he was jumping back and forth too that I went off on him so she went to have a talk with me and I told her that I am done with him and I don’t care

[Asker]

So basically what I’m saying is was I wrong or that’s normal thing to do?

[spartan55]

No, but keep in mind you played a big part in the situation.

[Asker]

What you mean by I played a big part in the situation if you don’t mind explaining bc literally I’m just so hurt and upset 😢

[spartan55]

Because you took him back multiple times. He knew you no self respect.

[Asker]

Well now he knows for sure so why is he calling my name for

[spartan55]

For easy sex, duh

[Asker]

He wanted sex?

[spartan55]

Why else would he keep coming back?

[Asker]

I don't know and I don’t care now

[spartan55]

You could have easily prevented all of this.

[Asker]

Right from the start my fault I guess

[spartan55]

That's not what I said. You don't seem to want to take any responsibility for what happened... why?

[Asker]

Why do I have to take a responsibility when I didn’t do anything wrong he was the one guilty

[spartan55]

So you were required to take him back?