I recently joined this dating app as I've been single for almost a year now and just want to have a bit of fun. I've never really dated before because my first partner I met at school and we were together till last year. I've been on a couple date with guys from the site but nothing ever works out and it's draining tbh meeting all these guys and it never going anywhere. So my question is, is it bad to date/ talk to more than one guy at a time? Of course if anything became serious with someone I would of course be exclusive with them but until that happens it's ok to date others right? I'm not sleeping with any of them it's not like that I just want to keep my options open, there's nothing wrong with that is there? There's a guy I've been on two dates with and he's since deleted his profile since meeting me which makes me feel a bit bad because I'm still speaking to others but we haven't had a talk about talking to others or anything like that. It's only been two dates I'm not doing anything wrong am I?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like you feel bad for seeing other guys while that guy seems to have ended contact with other women. Since you feel bad, it's not a bad idea to be honest with the guy. You sound like you don't know what you want right now while he sounds like he feels differently. I would be honest with him that you don't want a relationship right now and just want to get to know people. You'll probably hurt the guy even more in the future if you aren't honest.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think it´s alright, but once you get serious with someone you should stop. Though that doesn´t mean that you should go on dates with everyone you meet. Go on dates with those who truly attract you, and see who really wants you and enjoys your presence /cuz there are guys who just want something shallow if you know what I mean/, go for that guy.1