Is it wrong to date him?

[potatoe111]

Is it wrong for me a 16 year old to date a 12 year old? He will be turing 13 soon. And I know most of his family. His aunt, great grandma, grandma and brother plus he knows my little sister and grandmother. We have known each other for over a year even tho we rarely talk. I wanna know if it would be wrong for us to get into a relationship. The relationship would be strictly holding hands and watching movie's nothing even remotely sexual till he turns 18. I just really like him but I don't wanna be creepy I have never liked a younger guy other then him and he is showing some interest in me to someone help me I feel bad for finding him cute.😅😅😅😅

[Paolaa988]

I like younger guys also but if i was you i wouldn't only because you'll be an adult in just a couple years and what if you guys wanna get more intimate and you have to wait more years till he's 18? I know some people can wait and say they can but temptation comes and they really wanna grow closer and be intimate. My childhood crush is like 16 and in order for us to date id have to wait 2 years since im in California till he's 18 and id be like 25 by then since im turning 23 this year and really age is a number at the end of the day but laws are so strict and won't see it that way. I suppose if you truly love him you can wait if you'd like but you guys shouldn't close yourselves off unless you are patient and strong enough. I am seeing other people and talking to Other guys because i dont know if him and I are meant to be and im sure he is talking to girls his age too but if we're meant to be in the future we will be, my best advice is don't lose all hopes but don't settle all on one person until you see what happens in time. I really hope you guys would last and become something but people can change and life can happen and it's sad. I know because I've experienced what you have similarly with my childhood crush😔

[potatoe111]

Thank you for your input I am able to wait for him in my personal opinion I want to wait for marriage and to wait to find that person that can wait if that person truly loves me sex doesn't need to happen to have a functioning healthy relationship

[Paolaa988]

I think that's amazing then. Sex definitely isn't everything in a relationship to me its important but everyone has their own view and critique :) as long as you both are on the same page and keep that solid communication and connection you guys should be strong enough to keep going. Don't let anyone judge you just because of all the mishap crimes and stuff. You love who you love at the end of the day and as long as nobody's hurting anybody that's all that matters and you two are happy. I've had experience with younger guys as in touching and full on sex with a 18 year old and in my view it's more hotter lol

[potatoe111]

Yes honestly peope are acting like it's a big age gap 3 years isn't that much and I'm not forcing or manipulating him hoesntly the only reason I even notice him was cause he was checking ME out not the other way around

[LEXXMIIN]

Yes! Although I think anything under age is weird. But since you asked, yes!

[potatoe111]

Thank you for your input and consideration

[Nicegirldaqui]

It's not common but I dont think its wrong, you're both underaged, the only difference can be the maturity of you.

[7771999]

I wouldn't do that if I was you

[potatoe111]

Thank you for you input it is very much appreciated

[7771999]

Dunno if you're sarcastic

[potatoe111]

I am not being sarcastic I appreciate that you took your time to read and replay to my question thank you have a wonderful day

[kyleelyn199723]

Yuck.

[jahaims]

Pretty weird.

[potatoe111]

Yes I do know it is werid 😅

[In_Trance]

Yeet!!

[potatoe111]

Welp that was very helpful sir

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It’s kinda cute

[Nachowedgie]

Yup, very wrong

[potatoe111]

Thank your for you consideration