Should I date him?

[Anonymous]

So I have been taking to this one guy for over 8 months and I've developed feelings for him but I noticed he possesses some characters I do not like such as not giving or spending on people thats why i feel i can't dqte him and let him kiss me as he asked. And now there's another guy that has Been talking to me and he's literally bought the world in just one month. He takes good care of me and seems to be overly in love with me. Sometimes it feels overwhelming. I don't know if he's love bombing me or he's infatuated or in love. Cause I'm shocked by how a guy can just buy so much for me and want to see me every single day... I dont know what to do. I like how he takes care of me and I also like my space. We've kissed and yeah it feel good but I don't know if I love him. What should i do now?

[Changiis07]

You are going to miss the second guy the one that is giving you the attention you need and want, I get the needing space but you can also let him know you are busy because if you tell him you need space he slowly will stop doing the things he is doing now which is really nice. So be careful with your words but also do not rush into the relationship. One is already giving you signals that you there's some things you don't like, if he is cheap it's going to suck! Just take it slow and the other guy sounds like a better fit one who treats you like you should be treated. It's hard to find that nowadays

[Asker]

Yeah someone told me the same thing. It's hard to find a guy who is ready to treat you likea princess and he treats me like one. My only issue is just the space thing. And he's so damn expressive. I mean he could say he loves me 10 times a day and that's one things most guys lack that I appreciate, expression of one's feelings. I Don't want a man that I feel is at my finger tips. I also want him to be he's own person... I don't know if you get what I am saying.

[Changiis07]

Yes I totally understand, again you do not have to rush into a relationship. Keep getting to know them, take your time. I get that it can get suffocating as well so that's something you'll have to see what you want to do. If you're not interested then it's best to let go. I mean at the end of the day there's plenty of fish in the sea that will treat you good and that you will like as well. It doesn't have to be either one of these two

[In_Trance]

You've been talking for 8 months... What the hell have you been talking about?

[Asker]

We weren't talking constantly. He would like call me once in a month something if that nature