Am I a whore and is it a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

I'm 21 and guys only ever stare at me but never come up to me. I'm just sad and lonely. People tell me I intimidate men. I never thought I'll be like this but I feel like I'm in my whore phase right now. I swear the only ones who do approach me are the ones who play in bands. I made out with a few of these a lot recently and I have few guys who I actually like right now and sometimes they ask me to sleep at their place and everything.

Is it common for people do be like this or do I just have problems. I just don't want to be lonely but I feel like I'm a horrible person to be around

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you feel like you're a horrible person to be around that likely comes through in your attitude, thus making you a horrible person to be around. Why do you feel the way you do?

"you intimidate men" is one of the most overused and useless bits of "suggestion" I've ever seen in modern society. I've never been intimidated by a woman I just don't want to talk to her, usually because of the vibe she's giving off or a look on her face that says she's just going to be all kinds of negative energy that I don't feel like dealing with. I'm not "intimidated" by her, I find it unappealing.

So, precisely, why are you a horrible person to be around? Then we'll work from there.

[Miristheiss]

Well, a whore is technically someone who give sexual favors for money, a prostitute, an Onlyfans stripper, a stripper.

A slut is someone who sleeps around and has lots of one night stands or casual sex with people she doesn't really know and is NOT in a relationship in.

I don't believe either will be good for you long term and both are replete with negative consequences. It will always be better, healthier, more stable, better for kids and society if your sexual outlet is with one committed partner, long term.

[Summeroflove]

“Guys never talk to me” well…. Maybe you should go talk to someone then. Nobody HAS to talk to you.

[Summeroflove]

I’m sorry people are out living their lives and don’t even know you

[boggboss]

Are u a whore I would personly say no but that answer would differ depending on who u asked as for what u do is it bad I would say yes as I believe lapsing these guys or having sex with them will make u feel worst as from what it sounds thats all they want and that will make the feelings of loneliness become worst as u will attach that to your direct worth

[Berethor]

Yea I would Not Marry a Whore, I would Only Marry a Virgin, as Whores can't be Trusted. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Madonna-Whore_Complex

[Willlovewinintheend]

Most men don't expect to marry a virgin. You slept around like most women do.

[Anonymous]

Do what you want just don't hurt anyone. Practice safely and don't put yourself in bad or uncertain situations.

[shades777]

Yes and yes, yes and no, no and yes, no and no

[Staximus]

I think you need to learn to love yourself

[Luckycharms12]

Don't sound like a whore at all