I feel like a whore?

[Anonymous]

I feel like a whore and used

I went out with my boyfriend and his close friend

his close friend was joking about wanting to sleep with me which got me shocked just for my boyfriend suggesting to invite him over

just as simple as that

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man that sucks, I can see why you'd be feeling that way. It's super disrespectful of your boyfriend and his friend to joke about that stuff around you, especially without your consent. No one should make you feel used like that. Honestly your boyfriend inviting his friend over after he said that shows he doesn't have enough respect for your boundaries.

I wouldn't be okay with my girl being put in that situation either. Your feelings are totally valid - no one deserves to be made uncomfortable like that. Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how it made you feel. Ask him how he'd feel if the situation was reversed. He needs to understand that joking about hooking up with you in front of you is not cool at all.

If he doesn't apologize or brushes off your feelings, then that's not really okay. You deserve to be with someone who cares about getting your consent and making sure you feel respected in a relationship. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about having normal boundaries. His friend sounds like kind of a jerk too for saying that stuff. Don't be too hard on yourself - this isn't about you at all. You didn't do anything wrong. Stand up for how you want to be treated from now on!

[Asker]

I did talked with him
he is saying it isn't big deal and that I am overreacting

[Oliverlogan263]

That's really messed up that he's trying to downplay your feelings like that. A good boyfriend would care about making sure you feel respected and comfortable. It is a big deal if something makes you feel crappy!

He needs to understand that asking to invite another guy over without even talking to you about it first is not okay. Your trust and consent should always come first before suggesting stuff like that. My advice would be stick to your guns - don't let him gaslight you into thinking you're overreacting when you know in your gut that it bothered you.

This is about more than just this one incident - it's about him needing to realize your feelings matter equally in the relationship. Maybe take some time away from him to think about if this is the first sign of him dismissing your perspective. You deserve a partner who will value your consent and comfort over their own wants without question. Don't settle for less!

[Summeroflove]

I mean did you sleep with him? As long as you aren’t whoring around. You aren’t a whore. If you feel bad over something. Then pray to God and repent of it and stop doing it.

[Asker]

never slept with his friend

[Summeroflove]

Then you aren’t a whore lol. Tell your boyfriend how it makes you feel and his friend not to ever say something like that again.

Why do you feel like a whore if you didn’t do it? Did you feel tempted by it?

[HelpfulWoman]

But you're not because you didn't sleep with them.

But anyway, maybe time to leave the boyfriend. if he makes you feel that way and literally didn't set a boundary, he's waving a red flag for you

[MaterialisticMember]

If you don't want to do it don't. Doesn't mean you are a whore or been used

[JacobJordan]

A whore is paid. I presume you didn't do it so why are you feeling so terrible? Offended I would understand. Cause ew. Have you talked to your boyfriend about how disrespected you feel? And how vulgar that was?

[Asker]

I did talked with him
he is saying it isn't big deal and that I am overreacting

[JacobJordan]

Well do you think it is a big deal?

[Asker]

it is

[JacobJordan]

Okay so.
1 you think it is a big deal
2 you have brought it to his attention
3 he is denying your feelings and telling you that you are overreacting
What do you intend to do?

[Lliam]

Your boyfriend is an ass hole for not defending you. He should have told his friend to shut the fuck up.
So maybe your boyfriend isn't a gentleman and doesn't respect you. But that doesn't make you a whore.

[Honest-Matt]

Usually jokes come from ideas we've thought about. His friend does want to sleep with you and it just sounds weird. Don't let them influence you, they're being weird.

[Asker]

thanks for the opinion!

[aceleon]

you are not a whore yet, ou will be one if you accept it.
but your boyfriend is not a boy or a man, he is a cuck, lowliest thing a male can be.

[Asker]

I feel so depressed by how he turned to be
makes me consider breaking up

[aceleon]

consider? why this slow girl? he is not even a ''he'' you would be better of with a lesbian girl instead of this bitch.

[Drew-1990]

If anything that would make them whores not you because they are the ones saying it not you. You acting on it would be a little different situation

[TheSpider]

What you should feel is so enraged that you toss them both out and tell them to fuck each other. IMHO.

[Asker]

I am thinking about same

[TheSpider]

Smart girl! 😍😍😍

[KrakenAttackin]

Your boyfriend certainly thinks you are a whore.

[Asker]

never been a one

[AngryCarl]

You're not a whore if you didn't get paid. In other news, your boyfriend is a cuck.

[Saamee]

How you are in a relationship with this type of disgusting guy🤮

[KrakenAttackin]

@Saamee. He's haaawwwwwt.

[Anonymous]

You should have slapped them both dumped your boyfriend on the spot.

[Anonymous]

Im sorry
a lot guys do threesome with thier friend I don't know how they can do it

[Asker]

he never mentioned he is into that before

[Opinion Owner]

Yea tbh thats why he bring his friend with him

[Opinion Owner]

And he won't say for sure

[riverrat3]

How does that make you a whore

[Asker]

he makes me feel like an object he gives away

[riverrat3]

Then he should be an ex