so I was in an abusive relationship with a guy (let’s call him Jesse) for about 2 years and when I finally got out of it I went to his best friend (let’s call him Tyson) and told him everything as he was my friend also and the only person I felt I had left. Tyson was angry at Jesse for other shit and was done with him anyway and so he cut ties with Jesse. Eventually Tyson and myself got close and entered into a casual relationship which has now ended but were still friends. Tysons friend I see all the time and is also my friend (let’s call him Adam) seems to of started showing interest in me (teasing me, trying to involve me in things all the time, making fun of me, giving me dumb nicknames.. ya know all the shit teenage boys do when they like some one even tho we’re all in our 20s) and Tyson’s started complimenting him in front of me and bringing him up in conversations and things lately.
I think adams a really cool guy and I wouldn’t necessarily be opposed to a relationship with him but I’m concerned that if I were to do anything with Adam that I’d be seen as slutty or a whore or a “homie hopper” if you will.
Depends how close the 2 guys are really and how much you value tyson as a friend and how he feels. I would run it by tyson see if he's ok with it. If he's cool with it or you dont care how he feels as your friend go for it.
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LMAO!!! Keep your friends out of this girl, lol!
Just kidding! As long as you are not in a relationship when you do ANYTHING with a guy, you are not a whore. Good luck and have fun! ;)
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How every woman starts her story when she wants to play the victim to gain a position of power and command her army of white knights:
"I was in an abusive relationship"
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