Is guilt tripping a girl for not wanting to hangout being an asshole?

[Anonymous]

[AaronKrieger]

Yes, have some self-respect and don't do that shit.

[Asker]

hows guilt tripping not having self respect?

[AaronKrieger]

If you have to guilt trip a girl to want to hangout with you, then you don't want to rely on our own self-value, but instead rely on her pitying you. That is the opposite of her thinking of you as someone special and instead someone not worthy for her to date.

If you two are already dating, then unless it's being playfully done - you are being an asshole. You're not acting classy to the woman you're with.

[Asker]

makes sense,

[HollyK21]

Yeah, that’s not cool.

[Ironic_Method]

... yes? Guilt tripping anything isn't cool.

[XXblack88]

yeah, it's a d*ck move.