Do you need to be an asshole all the time to have girlfriends?

[Anonymous]

[WindAtMyBack]

I find it amazing that so many guys actually believe this. Of course it's not true.

Believe it or not, girls really do like nice guys. They just don't want fake nice guys.

[Asker]

The girls I did liked wanted and only dates assholes.

Girl: oh your just too nice but I only date assholes

[WindAtMyBack]

Then either you are going after the wrong women, or the guys they are dating are not really assholes like you think.

[Asker]

Most of them tells me they want assholes then other times they tell me they want or only dates African-American. My luck really sucks

[WindAtMyBack]

Then find different women. This is on you.

[Asker]

I Did thought about move to the country after I get all my shit together but those country girls wants sexy country boys with “ sexy ford F-350 super trucks or bigger “ I hope I’ll have better luck down in the country then from the city.

[WindAtMyBack]

You don't need to move to the country. You just need to get away from wherever you are. Or maybe stay there and hang with different people.

The thing is about the country is that there will far less women, and a lot more will be taken. For that matter there will be far less of everything else, including jobs.

[Asker]

I been living in the city for most of my life and I been looking for a decent women since middle school until now but no lucks and no lucks with no one night stands and no friends with benefits. Not even a single girlfriend. All my crushes didn’t like me back. It’s time for me to spend the rest of my life in the country and grow old. Plus the country folks are more nicer then the people in the city. Plus all my parents and friends have now passed away.

[WindAtMyBack]

If you really want to move to the country, I'd recommend making a test run before committing.

I've lived in urban areas, but mostly I've been a suburbs type. I've lived in the country before and it's not easy. I always hated cities. I loved the country. I traveled by car quite a bit - which is mostly in the country between cities. I was always an outdoors type. But even for me it was a bit of a shock living in the country. Maybe where I lived was a bit extreme, since it wasn't just country, it was in the middle of nowhere.

[Asker]

I have someone who I can ask her out and she lives very close by to me ☺️

[crossdressingrihno]

Nope. You need confidence and charisma and for the most part that's all you need to get a girlfriend however to keep one is a different story

[TheMajesticKing777]

I haven't needed to become an asshole to get woman's attention but whatever floats people's boats I guess

[Lowiu]

No you actually need to be a good person

[Blackcosmo]

No just be a good person.

[JohnK123]

Nope