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Why do I keep dating assholes, and how do I stop oversharing?

I'm not asking this for myself. I'm asking on YOUR behalf. You who are asking the same question as I did. I'm going to give you the advice a woman gave to me...

Shut The Fuck Up!!!

Stop giving them so much information about yourself. Stop telling them what your likes and dislikes are from the beginning. They can learn about it as the relationship grows. Because now you gave them aaaaaaaaall that information about yourself and they can use it to present a fake person. The can pretend to be what you want.

If a guy asks you straight from the beginning what your likes and dislikes are, just smile and shake your head no, and friendly say "no, that's boring lol. It's more interesting to learn about these things as a relationship grows". Or you can jokingly say, I don't like black coffee. Or I don't like the texture of tomato. Or I don't like going shopping on black Friday. Pick one. Something random, but true, but nothing that can be used against you. Or to manipulate you.

So try the "Shut the fuck up" method and let me know how it went. I'm not saying sit with a mouth full of teeth. You can talk, just don't over share. This already saved me a few times.

Why do I keep dating assholes, and how do I stop oversharing?
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