Is my boyfriend bare minimum?

[Anonymous]

I really need your take on this. Okay so my boyfriend says he does a lot for me. He says he does sooo much for me and gives me his last.

But we do not ever go on dates our whole 6 month relationship only went on 1 date.

He spends money on Uber for me ( he doesn’t have a car)

he pays for the hotel ( because he stays with his family )

we have sex ( he wants a lot of sex and sometimes forces me or makes me feel bad if I don’t)

he buys me food when he sees me.

He also occasionally sends me 40/60$

Bare minimum

Above and beyond

[JosyJosy]

Paying for the hotel, paying you, buying food, paying for an uber... Sounds like escort shit, sorry.

What he does for you is no different than a man paying a sugarbaby or some escort.

[Asker]

So what’s the difference between a boyfriend and this? Also he doesn’t pay me after sex.

[JosyJosy]

Boyfriend, if he's a good man doesn't make you feel bad if you're not in the mood. Hotels is a thing when you're going on holiday (Yes, maybe he does want private time, but do you really need a hotel for that? No, dates exist for that). You'd likely be staying together with him and the family. And you go on lots and lots of dates.

[JosyJosy]

And he's sending you money, as if that is enough to keep you happy.

[Asker]

Thank you for showing me the difference

[artgorgeous]

Seems like relationships between you and your boyfriend revolve only around money/sex.

[KrakenAttackin]

That's doing quite a bit for a prostitute.

[Asker]

What about this is prostitution?