From this conversation alone, would you be weirded out by this guy & stop talking?

[Anonymous]

I’m blue & he’s grey

Yes

No

[TipsyFr]

He seems like a jolly lad albeit he’s still into SpongeBob he could be childish or maybe he’s still in touch with his inner child. The only thing you need to be sure of is no social media? He can really be one of those guys who don’t have one because he’s not interested in comparing his life to that of other people’s or spending his time scrolling through pics and videos. Anyhow if you do meet up with him you want to make sure he wasn’t lying and attempting to hide his ig with pictures of his girlfriend. To do so you need to joke about not having instagram and then jokingly and while smiling say " I don’t believe you, prove it" if he doesn’t have it on his phone I think he passes the test and he’s red flag free ✌️

[Ironic_Method]

I dont have social media either and I prefer it that way. He seems fine to me.

[provokeesmokee]

I mean, I'm not a Seinfield or Spongebob person, so I probably would've been likewise confused. But there's nothing in there making me think twice.

No red flags.

But you don't owe anyone a relationship. If you lost interest or didn't have any to begin with, you're not obligated to be interested in him. You can gently let him down with a "sorry, I'm not interested".

[Anonymous]

No potential red flags detected
Having no social media is not a big issue