I just found out my childhood best friend is dating the guy who made my life miserable in high school and I don’t know how to feel about it?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, I [20M] was best friends with this girl in Primary school and high school. I moved away and now I’ve found out she’s dating the guy who used to pick on me before I moved away. I’ve seen her a person a few times since I moved away and she’s never even mentioned him once but I know they’re dating because I’ve seen pics of them together on her Instagram. I’m not jealous (I’ve got zero interest in dating atm) but I still feel awful. It’s like, why would she date HIM of all people? The person who literally went out of his way at every possible moment to make my life a living hell? It just feels like a massive slap in the face

[Billlewis]

I think you should face the issue head on, and try to arrange for the three of you to get together for lunch or dinner, etc. For all you know, he may feel terrible about the way he treated you, and your lady friend will be glad to see you, as well.

[Spongebobssocks]

Just cut her off from your life. If he is evil he will treat her bad too. At some point his fake charachter will break and she will be hurt. Just dont help her then and find a friend that is loyal to you that deserves your loyalty

[Anonymous]

Grow up, get over it and move on.