Right now, I'm dating my current boyfriend who's best friends with my ex-crush. Actually they've been besties since 5th grade and we're all in our 2nd yr of college now. Because of the gigantic campus, I don't see his friend thank god. But he prank calls me on my bf's phone and pretends to be him when I text him. I feel violated. My boyfriend doesn't know his phone was stolen until the very end. I keep getting flashbacks from last year and it made me angry all over again to the point of tears.
He's a really nice guy, I'll admit. But I just hate the fact that he lead me on so long and made me look like a fool to everyone. He broke me and didn't seem like he cared how I felt that much. I hate it when people pity me. I hate looking weak. I hate how he didn't know how much he hurt me and thinks it's okay to act friendly like nothing ever happened. He made me felt this way and I hate him.
But I think it's making it hard on my boyfriend right now. He once told me he love me and cherish his friendship for so long that he doesn't want to ever come to the point of choosing one of us. I'm not trying to make him choose. I want to keep this problem between me and his friend only but of course my boyfriend will be eventually affected too and I can't control this situation fully. I know it's in the past but it still hurts like yesterday. And I don't know what to do about it.
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Guy sounds like an asshat. Seems he still thinks he has something over you otherwise he wouldn't mess with you like he does.
I don't know what to suggest apart from try and rise above it. Just try and ignore the idiot and tell your boyfriend that the taking his phone business is totally out of order, what if you messaged your boyfriend something really personal?
Next time he does it, take your bf's phone, and you click it's him I'd say something like you heard an awful rumour about his best mate going round, that some girls were proper laying into him, saying how much of a prick he is. See how he likes feeling like a twat.