My boyfriend hates my best friend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend hates my best friend because he thinks she's a whore. When they met she had just broke up with her boyfriend that she'd been with for 3 years. She was talking to two guys and she slept with one. This was the first time (and probably the last) that she had done something like this. We were talking about the guys when my boyfriend walked up. So because of our conversation he thinks she's a whore. We have had serious fights about it. I haven't seen my best friend in almost a year because I just don't feel like fighting with my boy friend. It has caused my friendship to fall apart. My friend and I have talked and worked things out but I know it would be a problem if I told my boyfriend I wanted to hang out with her because he thinks I'm going to turn into a whore. I really miss her and I want to see her but I don't want to fight with him.

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He also thinks that she isn't a good friend. I'm usually the one that made the plans but not always and when I stopped talking to her she never tried to get a hold of me. Because of that he thinks I don't need her in my life.

[lemi123]

First of all: your friend's sex life is NOT your boyfriend's business, not anyone's business. She has the right to do whatever she wants as long as it's respectful and healthy.
Second: your boyfriends sounds like a manipulative asshat. If you care about your friend you should hang out with her, and your bf is not your boss, deciding with whom you should hang out with.
I seriously think your boyfriend just doesn't deserve you, and you should have a serious chat with him about this thing. If he keeps on saying things like that or controls you you should break up with him.

[joaninhagirl]

If a guy tries to control you, you should just dump him, seriously, he doesn't deserve you. A man has to respect his woman.

[BiffWebster]

look she's your friend... and any dude that's going to be like "yea you can't chill with her because she's slutty" shouldn't be one to talk.
whether he likes it or not... too bad she's your best friend. So what if the dude doesn't agree with her promiscuity, its not you thats doing that anyway. You know its great and everything that he cares... worried about you and your bf's lifestyle, but thats a boundary that you gotta handle. And you can... and he's gotta realize that.

[Shaggy5150]

Why does he care about what she does? He isn't dating her. Sounds like he is a controlling ass and you let him. He has to approve of your friends in order for you to get to hang out with them? You are throwing away a good friend for a guy that probably won't be in your life at some point. He doesn't have to like your friends, they are YOUR friends. Get together with her and tell him tough and to keep his opinions to himself. If he doesn't and gets assy, dump him.