Best female friend's boyfriend hates me. What to do?

[Anonymous]

Long story short: Was rejected by female friend, started over, and it's well known all at my school that I still like her

My friend who I considered a good friend, apparently only considers me an acquaitenance. He went behind my back to date her, and yeah they're dating

I told her it's effed up he did that to me, and she sorta defended him and brushed off whatever I said. I'm a bit mad at her. I'll admit I did say some bad things about him, and it DOES seem like she told him(and that's why he hates me). But me and her are best friends and have a lot of trust..

Should I be mad at her for dating him? Does this complicate the friendship with the girl? Should I be mad at her for what seems like she betrayed my trust and told him some things I said?

Be friends with her

Don't be friends with her

[yaddayaddayadda02]

She's dating who she thought was the better of you two. It stings, but doesn't make it any less truthful.

There's no point in being friends with a chick you still have the hots for, it only ever ends badly.

She'd going to be loyal to her boyfriend to get in with him.

Best to move on from both of them.

[Asker]

You mean loyal is in tell him everything and betray my trust?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Yup. Loyal to him, not you.

[Asker]

That's what stings the most, sometimes I do have absolutely no feelings for her and enjoy her as a friend... and I told her friendships last forever, not relationships

[Anonymous]

There's nothing you can do. Just stop being friends with her.