How do I get over a breakup when he was my best friend?

[Anonymous]

It's probably so much easier to get over a breakup when the person isn't your best guy friend but that's not the case for me. I talk to him everyday. Lately though our talks have mostly just been about the break up and I don't know how to get back to being just friends with him. How do I get back to just being friends when I still want to be with him. The break up wasn't mutual. He broke up with me. So our relationship is a bit awkward at best now.

I just want things to be how they were before all of this but I don't know how to get there when all I can think about is my love for him. When I hear his voice on the phone all of the feels come rushing back. Even when we text the feels are there but not nearly as strong as when we talk on the phone.

He seems to be okay with it. He told me recently that he felt rushed into the relationship anyways so for him it was kind of a no-brainer to end things when things went south. I won't get into what happened, but the break up was 100% my fault.

[MrWolf]

Well that's one way to keep twisting that knife in your back yourself, I mean your hearth. You either grow as a person and be adult about it or you don't. There ain't a short cut to happiness with this situations.

Yet not all that is broken cannot be mended. So how about a second chance which most couples give each other.

Still to acknowledge your mistake you are halfway there. Time heals most wounds in the end.