They both were childhood friends and grew up in the same neighborhood, went to all the same schools and have a lot of mutual friends. They have been boyfriend and girlfriend since 2012 and broke up in 2020. The breakup wasn’t a nasty one and even tho they made a decision not to communicate in order to move on, their friends and family interact with each other. I have no issue with this at all. But, I’m concerned that he still has feelings for her. I don’t want both of us getting hurt, and I’m not sure if to ask him about the situation.
Basically, he’s been going over to his cousin’s place a lot, and his cousin is his ex’s best friend and also next door neighbor. And, he recently went on a IG clean up spree and deleted a bunch of posts, but kept a couple of him and his ex. I’m not sure what to assume lol. I surprisingly don’t feel angry or anything at all, but more concerned about his well being and what I should do to help him. What are your opinion, and what do you think I should do? Thanks!😊
Basically, he’s been going over to his cousin’s place a lot, and his cousin is his ex’s best friend and also next door neighbor. And, he recently went on a IG clean up spree and deleted a bunch of posts, but kept a couple of him and his ex. I’m not sure what to assume lol. I surprisingly don’t feel angry or anything at all, but more concerned about his well being and what I should do to help him. What are your opinion, and what do you think I should do? Thanks!😊
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His well being? What does that mean?
I mean his mental health mostly. If he’s not over his ex and is pretending to be happy with someone else (me for example) it’ll not work out well for both of us. I think he needs to properly heal before he forces himself to move on and potentially suffer mentally and emotionally. It seems as though he’s perhaps unknowingly dating others as a rebound.
I really don't think his mental health is in any sort of danger here. I also think that is a pretty irresponsible leap for you to take considering it's not based on anything except what you think. I don't really understand why you think he still has feelings for her. You are being vague about whatever reasons you have. Have you talked to him about it?
I would say try and talk to him
Thank you 😊