Best way to get over a breakup quickly?

[Gloree]

I fear my relationship has come to an end. I prefer when I was innocent about love. But it is what it is. At least I've experienced love.

How do I get over it as soon as possible?

[Alex8736]

do things that used to make you happy before all relationship drama came into your life

[Gloree]

I will try. thanks.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why do you think it's over

[Gloree]

I need to be prepared

[Bklynbadboy12]

Don't say that if you love him then fight for your relationship you can't just give up at the first sign of trouble right

[Gloree]

I understand what you're saying. But I called some hours ago. he didn't take my calls. I called again some few minutes ago. he picked on the third ring, barely listened to my I'm sorries and ended the call. Then I called again. he ignored again and managed to pick, then said he wants to sleep and doesn't want to talk to 'anybody'. he sounded dismissive and kind of in pain. I don't know. He mumbled some words that said he will talk tomo or next but even the words came out tentative and vague. I'm not sure I want to give him the gifts antmore. cause I can feel he is not ready to talk. But I want him to tell me if it's over so I can start grieving. I don't want to postpone my grief. I want to send him an SMS saying exactly that because that's how I feel.

[Gloree]

#anymore

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just give him so time he's just hurt that's all

[Gloree]

I've already sent the message. I'm not expecting a response and I've decided to not contact him again.

[Gloree]

thanks.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Gloree]

ur welcome. and I'm happy to reveal that we just settled the issue. we are back together and spent all day together. I'm so happy.

[Gloree]

he texted that he wanted to see me immediately after church. I thought he wanted to end it but he said he still deeply loves me but I should not do what I did again. (which was disrespect him) in public. all is well.

[Bklynbadboy12]

See I told you he just needed a little time

[Gloree]

yeah. u were right. thanks so much

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your welcome and I'm so proud

[Elliegirl]

In my experience, the best way to get over a breakup is to go no contact with your ex for at least a month to give each other time and space to have your feelings, miss each other, and move on. Do things that make you happy and work on yourself so you come out better and stronger on the other side.

[Gloree]

thank you. I will try and do just that.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

It wouldn't be a good idea to "get over one, quickly". Trust me

[Gloree]

what's the reason for your opinion?

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Well, it's not like it matters, you chose someone else as MHO because it "fits your narrative", right?

[Gloree]

that wasn't it. I thought about your words a lot. but you didn't provide insight. and I really don't want to give up.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

That's my point my answer doesn't fit "your narrative"