Why once I get the guy I become disinterested? How am I going to find a husband?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

It can take time to find the right person when marriage is your goal

[andreasderjuengere]

Perhaps... "getting"" someone, and keeping someone are different goals?
Try this: forget about 'getting' - and focus on quality control (on both sides) :)

[Asker]

Quality control on both sides? What do you mean by that?

[andreasderjuengere]

The quality of the person, and the quality of the relationship.

[slatyb]

Sounds like avoidant attachment. Try reading "Attached" or seeking counseling. Do you really want a partner?

[Asker]

but counseling are not free

[slatyb]

No it is not. Is there someone you could talk to?

[artgorgeous]

You put your hand in a box, and always pull out bananas from this box. What do you do if you don't like bananas? You go try looking in a different box.

[ohmyguy]

Rethink your motivations