I’m barely getting to know someone new, he didn’t text me for two days and we initially talked about having a date with no set plans yet. He msged me last night on Snapchat.. I didn’t reply since I was busy and he took a long time lol. I did post a story instead. He did saw it too. I was gonna reply this morning but he deleted his msg… um I messaged him and asked why did he delete his message. He hasn’t respond. I’m so confuse…. What am i supposed to do?
Why would he delete his message on Snapchat?
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Ah that's easy, he saw that you posted a story but ignored his message. Which makes it seem. He ain't shit to you so. He unsent it and is now ignoring you
So what can I do now?
Just casually mention and clear it up to him that you weren't ignoring him. Even if you were but just lie
But there is a chance he denies it so he doesn't look dumb but that's what the reason it is
He hasn’t responded. So I should just message him that I’m thinking of him and I’m not ignoring him?
Nah just wait it out. He'll reply eventually
But don't seem like you just committed the worst crime in the whole world and beg for mercy just casually bring it up.
Not sure how I would do that.. how does this sound if he replies days later? “sorry I didn’t get to reply to you on time the other day since I was working on a poster board for my niece and working, just know I was thinking of ☺️”
Hmmm so I would make that the second message. So let's say we talking about a very common topic. Kung fu panda 🤔😌
Right and I'm talking about how the fuck po got a dad as a duck
Right then you reply "oh I dont know, probably cause he adopted, you dumb mu fucka"
And then that's where you bring up the second message you said. Oh by the way sorry for not replying the other day and all the rest. You see what I mean?🤔
Oh and I'm not too sure on the ," I've been thinking about you" I mean it's not bad or anything but saying that all depends on if you guys forsure like eachother. Have been flirting. Cause if you guys barely started talking one could see how telling someone they've been thinking about you when y'all just met is a little risky🤔 as I said it's nothing crazy but if you wanna stay on the safer side I wouldn't say the you've been thinking about him. Unless you guys always talk like that. I dont know its your call🤔
But with that being said if he replies days later that fool is a child and throwing a tantrum and at that point why you even still trying to talk to him. You didn't even do anything wrong really
Hahahhaa thanks for the great example and comments! I appreciate you, you’re actually pretty cool☺️ are you really 25? Lol
Yeah it’s really weird to me because I’ve never had anyone done this before, so I was very taken aback… I am a little worry he might be abit emotionally immature lol
You're very welcome😂 thank youu, I try I try haha. Yes I am 25 last time I checked🤔 but sometimes I forget that too
It honestly just depends on how long he takes to reply. Because you have to look at it in his point of view. Let's say you really liked him and liked talking to him. And then one day you see him posting a story and you still being left on delivered. How would it make you feel?🤔 now I'm not saying it would make you feel bad or anything I'm just saying we have to consider how it could make HIM feel about it. It could make him feel like ,"oh I guess I ain't a priority to her." It could make him think, "oh she's ignoring me". All while it was never the case, you were just busy and even though that was the reason and YOU know that. Does HE know that🤔
Generally when we like people small shit like that is magnified. So like for example. If I really liked a girl and loved talking to her and she's taking hours to reply. It could bother me like damn why is she taking so long🤔🤔 damn she's taking so long to reply but posting on her story😒 this is how overthinking happens.
But if I was put in that same scenario with a friend I don't care about , FEELINGS wise... Aye bro you can take a week to reply I don't really care😂 I'm chillin😎. You see what I mean? Sometimes it's hard not to overthink when it comes to someone you like. Maybe he's not emotional insecure but just likes yo ass. But then again. Maybe he is emotionally insecure and a whole ass child. I dont know. My whole point of saying all this is to try to get you to look at people's behavior in a different light or point of view. So you don't just see it one way and then be completely blindsided by the real reason.🤔 Anyway yes I'm 25🤣
Hahahahaha dang thanks for bringing that into perspective. So I get everything you’re saying but hear me out… we low key talked about going on a date but we both won’t be free until the following weekend unfortunately … we briefly talked on a phone call that I don't know may ended awkwardly.. and then the next morning he never say nothing. I asked if he was irritated cuz of what happened. He said I’m over thinking and it’s all good. But I feel like the way he talked to me was weird.. and he just stopped talking to me with little effort…. He even stopped looking at my story.. and waited 2 days after seeing my story at night to message me.. and that’s why I was kinda annoyed to not respond to him right away… so I was very shocked that he ignored me so fast when he took so long to even message me and idk… I don't know what’s going on😂😅
Taylor swift should now make a song about 25 😂
Oh yeah y'all already going through the bullshit and y'all even haven't started dating😂🤔 im not too sure about that relationship then🤔 but if it makes you happy then go for it I guess
Girl are you a swifty!😂
Well I don't know why he would even go on 2 days without messaging me.. and suddenly delete his message? Isn’t that confusing? Lol. He msged me tonight. But I’ll message him tomorrow morning. I’d feel weird to only have night conversation.