Should I delete him from Snapchat?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this one guy for months, but we never hang out. We Snapchat consistently but it never turns into a date or hanging out even though he lives 15 minutes away.
He invited me twice and ends up not going through with the plans. I've even invited him to bars and he would tell me he doesn't drink.
At our local bar, I let him know I was going there and he told me he was going too. Throughout the whole night, he didn't leave my side and he told a mutual friend how he has been nervous about seeing me and that he really likes me, in person, he doesn't seem like a player. He invited me again to go do a picnic at the beach on that same day around the same time we were supposed to go together he snaps me with his friend and throughout the day he barely talked to me.
I SNAPPED, I called him out on always being flakey and told him how upset I was. He saw my message and then didn't respond. No apology, no explanation, nothing. I really like him but I don't tolerate disrespect.
Is it extreme of me to delete him off Snapchat and unfollow on Instagram

[Zweihander]

I don't know he might just feel like you don't actually like him. Guys know girls have these trial phases, and even if the girl agrees to hang out or something, she can easily turn it into "just friends" on a whim. I personally think it's bullshit, and if I like a girl and want to date her I'll tell her. But he might not be at that level and want confirmation that you actually like him before he hangs out with you.

[Zweihander]

Also i think you should have talked about this before it got to the point where you felt disrespected. But you're not wrong in moving on. He's clearly not gonna do shit.

[Asker]

I said in person that I liked him, when he walked me to my car we did kiss for a little. He seems to be nervous around me in person but when he ditched me for his friend I felt disrespected. Not only didn't he give me some excuse that I would eat up and give a 2nd chance, he didn't do anything & when I was upset and called him out on it, he just ignored me.

I just dont know if its drastic enough to delete him on snapchat because we are bound to run into each other again and i dont want to be too awkward

[Zweihander]

I dunno. I think you should just move on and go next. There's no reason to waste time on something that's not working out. I wouldn't delete him because that just looks immature and petty. Just say you don't see it working out if he doesn't care enough to at least reply and leave it at that. Then you can delete him afterwards and it won't look bad.

[blkgold33]

I'm confused so he was hanging out with his but didn't talk to you that day?

[Asker]

no we saw each other at the bar but it wasn't planned. He went with his friends and I went with mine. At the bar we spent time with each other. He made actual plans to do a date on a (tuesday) and when it was Tuesday he barely contacted me and around the time we would've went on our date he was snap chatting me a picture of him spending time with his guy friend.

[blkgold33]

Ok so he pretty much bailed on you and went to hang out with his friends