Why would a girl go on a date with me but say she never wanted sex?

[Anonymous]

I told the girl i tried manipulating her and i lied about all the compliments i gave her

I told the girl that i just wanted sex, she said she never wanted sex. she said in her words that she's glad she didn't go on another date.

Why would she go on a date with me if she didn't want sex, is she retarded? or is she lying?

Why would she call it a date too? dates are for kissing, sex and intmacy.

[Anonymous]

If this is a first or second date, hell even a 3rd depending on the person, for a lot of people the goal is not to have sex. If you’re trying to build something with someone in general you don’t want it to come off so eager to hook up. Despite all this, the girl you’re talking about is not happy with how you texted her, it was disrespectful. If you did text her and apologize, I’m not sure why you’re back here. I’m guessing she said something that pissed you off now you’re ranting here again.

[Asker]

she ignored my apology, so I told her i was just joking and then said you look cute for a chubby girl

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you need to do that? The backhanded compliment it’s just rude and shows your level of immaturity. Even with rejection you’re so combative rather than just being humble and moving on.

[Asker]

so i should move on to another girl?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, definitely move on

[Asker]

do you think if i wait 4 months to see her at where she works at the mall, that she will forgive me

[Opinion Owner]

I really think you should just leave her alone

[Asker]

she was the one who gave me the number without asking

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t matter Zach, that was in the beginning and a lot has happened since then, including her telling you specifically that you you’ve blown your chances.

[Asker]

is she talking about forever

[Asker]

is she saying were never going on another date ever?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, that is forever. Why are you fixating so much on this? There’s other women out there.

[Asker]

Im very lonely thats why i keep fixating on it.

does approaching girls at the mall or clubs sound good?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think you should approach anyone until you know you can be more respectful and not blow your chance before you even get it. That means not talking about getting sexual so quickly and instead let it happen naturally, unplanned. It also means not talking down or acting ridiculous towards a woman if she rejects you or if things aren’t going your way. She’s not suddenly ugly and obese because she feels like the vibe is gone.

[Asker]

i think i should approach girls, because if i dont approach girls I will be celibate for the rest of my life

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should if your approach is better. How you’re going about it now just isn’t cool.

[Asker]

i am a very lonely person, so maybe i should start to try and find a girlfriend, instead of looking only sex

[Asker]

I should try to find a girlfriend instead of just hookups

[Opinion Owner]

I think that would be much better

[LazerBean]

You are the one who is the retard. Looks like you're taking after your dumb, bastard child of a dad. Look forward to nothing but misery is all of your future relationships, because that's all that someone of your quality is going to get out of them.

[chrissykerdock]

it's customary to make out let a guy feel you up give head on a 1st date that's kind of expected or why would you accept a date with a guy

[sheikalana]

Because she just wanted to get to know you and see if you guys could be more than just dating.

[spartan55]

Bro, you really need to grow up before you date.

[Asker]

dating is for sex

[spartan55]

Like I said...

[nobodythenomad]

Typical guy. Have fun ladies

[tzdc21]

Stop trolling dude.

[Asker]

hows that trolling

[tzdc21]

You're posting something intending to rile people up. Come on now. Saying outright you used a girl just for sex, when most guys wouldn't dare to say that in public? You being surprised that she didn't want to date just for sex? You're trolling.